Appreciation and Contentment – Keys to Joy and Endurance
- Purity 569
Purity 569 11/06/2021 Purity 569 Podcast
Good morning
Today’s photo of the of the setting sun from the vantage
point of Waite Rd in Easton NY comes to us from yours truly as I decided to
take a stroll with a canine friend yesterday and grabbed several shots of the fading
sun and the surrounding countryside as I realized that God had blessed us with
a spectacular opportunity to enjoy the autumnal colors just before twilight.
It’s Saturday and as I am becoming more and more comfortable
with weekends at my fiancé’s place in Washington County, I have come to realize
that there comes a point in the process of entering into new phases of life
where the process of adaptation stops, and acceptance comes; where you go from
feeling like “What is this?” or “I don’t know about this!” to “Oh yeah, we’re doing this” or “Yup, this is what
we are doing now!”
It’s that wonderful part of a journey of life
where you still haven’t arrived to where you’re going to yet, and you are still
far from establishing a new status quo, but you have fully embraced the
direction you are walking towards and are rejoicing with each new step into
that “new normal”. It’s that phase where
things are still new and exciting but where things are becoming familiar and
comfortable.
But you know what, even though I am experiencing
the joy of a deepening relationship, adapting to new environments, and
transitioning to a whole new existence, I am pretty sure that I don’t have the exclusive
rights to these feelings of joy and that all of my friends can have a wonderful
weekend if they simply take a moment to rest and to appreciate all the good
they have in their lives.
We stop losing our joy when we start taking things
for granted or we stop growing. So if you have made it to Saturday without
rejoicing over the end of the work week yesterday or by gaining feelings of
peace with where you are and contentment with the things you have, I’m here to
remind you that all of us have the ability to enter into those feelings if we
merely take some time to direct our thoughts to appreciate the blessings we
have been given.
So look around at where you are and appreciate all
you have and the people who are in your life. If you do that you will realize
that in many ways you can agree with what the “Easy to Read Version” of the
Bible has to say in
Psalm 23:1 (ETRV)
1 The LORD is my shepherd. I will always have everything I need.
Also if we are feeling “bored” or “blah” because
of the “same old, same old” of life, the responsibility falls on us to either
be content with what we have or to do something new. God gave us two eyes, two legs,
and a mind to go explore and “take dominion over the earth” so we should utilize those gifts to see new
places, to do new things, to gain new knowledge and insights about the world we
live in, or to deepen our relationship with the Lord by learning more about
Him.
My friend in the UK, Philip Hand recently shared this original art which I call “Love like a Dove” of the symbolic rendering of the love of God and the Holy Spirit. He also shared these simple verses of poetry and I thought I would share them to remind us of all we have through our relationship with God and to encourage my friends to walk into the remainder of the weekend with joy, peace, and hope.
“This love I know moves mountains,
I'm told it can even save my
soul.
The taste of death won't stop us,
till love reaches it wonderful goal.”
-
Philip Hand
God’s not done with us. Our continuing lives are
evidence that He has more for us to experience here on earth. So appreciate
what you have, keep a fresh perspective that looks for the beauty and good around
us, and walk in the newness of your life in Christ every day.
Today’s Bible verses are drawn from “The NLT Bible Promise Book
for Men”.
This morning’s meditation verses
are:
Philippians 4:11-13
(NLT2)
11 Not that I was ever in
need, for I have learned how to be content with whatever I have. 12 I know how to live on almost nothing
or with everything. I have learned the secret of living in every situation,
whether it is with a full stomach or empty, with plenty or little. 13 For I can do everything through
Christ, who gives me strength.
Today’s verses encourage contentment
with the circumstances of life and gives us the proper perspective on our
ability to “do everything through Christ.”
If I didn’t know how the Holy Spirit can
subtly work in our lives, I would think that it was rather “ironic” that these
verses came up as I was moved to speak briefly about contentment and appreciating
what we have in the first part of this message without knowing that these
verses would just so happen be the next ones to come up in the NLT Promise Book
for Men.
When the same scriptures or similar themes
reappear in your experience, I say that is a small piece of evidence that tells
you that you are indeed on the path of Christian discipleship or as some would
put it, you are “tracking with the Holy Spirit.”
I particularly like that our resource
presented Philippians 4:11 & 12 and didn’t just present verse 13. The anthem of empowered Christian faith of
verse 13 is often proclaimed to give us hope that “we can do this!”. We can do “all
things through Christ who strengthens me .” as the NKJV puts it.
However, the context that precedes
verse 13 is important. The context points
out what some of the “all things” that we can do through Christ includes. The possibility of living on “almost
nothing” with an empty stomach and still being content is one of those “all things”
that we can do through Christ who gives us strength.
So yes while we can accomplish new and wonderful things in life with
Christ as our guide, we are also reminded that there can be times when things
won’t be so triumphant materially, but we can still be content in all
circumstance because of our relationship with God and the reality of Christ in
Us, the indwelling presence of the Holy Spirit.
So be content with where you find yourself today. Keep walking and
talking with God and strive to become the person God wants you to be and to
walk into the good works that He has prepared for you.
It turns out that God is with us in good times and bad and we can always have hope and be empowered to overcome, persevere, or endure because of the strength, love, and guidance that He gives us.
As always, I invite all to go to mt4christ.org where I always share insights from prominent Christian counselors to assist my brothers and sisters in Christ with their walk.
Today we conclude sharing from June Hunt’s Dating: Secrets to Great Relating When Dating
As always, I share this information for educational purposes
and encourage all to purchase June Hunt’s books for your own private study and
to support her work. If you need this title you can find it online at several
sites for less than $5.00:
I. How to Maintain Purity Over Passion
How easy to be deceived in dating—to be misled by looks, propelled by
insecurity, or lured by lust—and end up with a used body, a guilty conscience,
and a broken heart. To prevent hurtful relationships, plan your personal
guidelines before you begin dating. Having your convictions in place ahead of
time will help you uphold them, even in the face of shifting emotions.
In addition, each couple should be sensitive to the physical boundaries in
their relationship. That is, they should know their limits and be cautious
about approaching them—much less crossing them. In their cooler moments,
couples should talk about how to avoid times of temptation and set boundaries
in order to make purity in the dating relationship a top priority....
"The wisdom of the prudent is to give thought to their ways, but the
folly of fools is deception." (Proverbs 14:8)
The following acrostic on Purity
can help you maintain a godly perspective in your dating relationship.
Purity
P—Prioritize God's standard for purity
in your dating.
Make a commitment
to God and each other to maintain sexual purity until marriage. Pray about this
daily...and before each date. Should you ever violate this commitment, have an
understanding that you will break off the relationship and seek individual counsel
and healing.
- —Have
same-sex "his and her" accountability partners who ask explicit
questions about sexual purity on a weekly basis—or more often if needed.
Give them a copy of your written sexual purity commitment.
- —Let your
accountability partners know when you will be alone together in private
for an extended period. Ask them to lift you up in prayer during these
times.
"Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for
God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral" (Hebrews 13:4).
U—Undertake personal accountability
for how you treat your date's body.
Avoid any touch
that emulates or entices sexual activity.
- —Don't
touch your date in a sexual manner.
- —Read a
good book together on sexual purity.
"But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or
of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God's holy
people" (Ephesians
5:3).
R—Refrain from activities that violate
God's standard by arousing sexual desires. Then repent and recommit to sexual
purity if these standards are violated.
- —Avoid
sexually oriented media—like magazines, books, movies, television
programs, videos, websites.
- —Be willing
to walk out of a movie theater, change the television channel, or turn off
a video player when you encounter material that creates sexual desire or
tension—even if only one of you is feeling uneasy.
- —Don't use
language that could arouse sexual desire—even when "joking"—and
avoid discussing sexually oriented subjects.
- —If you
travel together before marriage, arrange for separate bedrooms.
- —Immediately
involve your accountability partners if you find yourself slipping
morally.
"It is God's will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid
sexual immorality; that each of you should learn to control your own body in a
way that is holy and honorable" (1 Thessalonians
4:3-4).
I—Implement goals that are pleasing to
God.
- —Study
Scripture together...reading, for example, about other role models in the
Bible, such as Joseph and Ruth.
- —Undertake
service projects that give you an opportunity to work together to help
others.
- —Commit to
helping each other maintain balanced lives, with time for friends,
hobbies, and other priorities.
"We make it our goal to please him, whether we are at home in the body
or away from it. For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ, so
that each of us may receive what is due us for the things done while in the
body, whether good or bad" (2 Corinthians
5:9-10).
T—Trust in God's timing.
- —Remember
that God's sense of timing differs vastly from ours.
"Do not forget this one thing, dear friends: With the Lord a day is like a thousand years, and
a thousand years are like a day" (2 Peter 3:8).
- —As you
date, allow the Lord to
handle any hurts and disappointments that may come your way.
- —Don't
think of dating as a waiting game. Use your single years to build
relationships with the Lord
and others. God has not created us to live in isolation, but to be in
fellowship with others. Develop a heart of love and acceptance for those
He has placed in your life.
"Jacob served seven years to get Rachel, but they seemed like only a
few days to him because of his love for her" (Genesis 29:20).
Y—Yield your life to the Lord.
- —Surrender
your expectations. Don't let the pounding of your biological clock block
out the voice of the Holy Spirit.
- —Surrender
your emotions. Since feelings follow thinking, learn to think the way God
thinks by memorizing and meditating on Scripture that is related to
waiting on the Lord.
- —Surrender
your will. Give up your demands and expectations for marriage. Instead,
seek His will.
"Seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things
will be given to you as well" (Matthew 6:33).
Resisting Sexual Temptation
Question: "I have committed my life
to the Lord. What can help me
resist sexual temptation?"
Answer: Carry visual
reminders of your highest ideals, values, and commitments. For example, many
young people choose to wear a "purity ring" to symbolize their
covenant to the Lord—specifically,
to abstain from engaging in sexual activity outside the marriage relationship.
"The prudent see danger and take refuge, but the simple keep going and
suffer for it." (Proverbs 27:12)
Too Late
Question: "I wanted to remain pure,
but what do I do if I've already crossed that line and it's too late?"
Answer: You cannot take
back sexually what has already been given away any more than you can take back
words that have already been spoken. However, if you have lost your virginity,
take heart in knowing it can be reclaimed. God is both your Redeemer and
Restorer.
If you are single
and not a virgin, God still desires that you live a life of sexual integrity.
You can choose what is called "secondary virginity," and He can empower
you to have victory over the past. Through His compassionate power to cleanse,
God offers you sexual redemption and a purified heart.
He intends your sexuality to be a wonderful present to your marriage
partner. So, from this point on, save yourself for the one God has saved for
you....
"Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within
me.... I will cleanse you from all your impurities...I will give you a new
heart and put a new spirit in you...I will put my Spirit in you and move you to
follow my decrees." (Psalm 51:10; Ezekiel 36:25-27)
On your next date, think about your future mate and apply God's Golden Rule:
Do unto your date what you would have someone do to your mate!
Biblical Counseling Keys: Dating: Secrets to Great Relating
When Dating.
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