For Unto You a Child is Born – The Boy Who Lived - Purity 607
Purity 607 12/21/2021 Purity 607 Podcast
Good morning,
Today’s photo of a quaint New England lighthouse on the shores of Cape
Cod comes to us from yours truly and the distant past as I captured this scene
while on a whale watch cruise during a family vacation in the Summer of ’09,
maybe or sometime in the 2000’s. I wasn’t the most diligent in labeling my
photos in years past and the technology I used didn’t timestamp it, but I do
believe this comes from a trip that was B.C. before Christ.
Speaking of another B.C., if you happen to see my son today, Brennan
Clark, be sure to wish him a happy birthday as he began his epic journey of
life in this world 20 years ago today. Brennan’s coming was dramatic and his
life has been filled with drama in various ways ever since.
Brennan is a twin and my eldest born son as he and his brother, Holden,
were born two months premature with Brennan being the first baby born and the
only son I held on the day of his birth as the team of doctor’s and nurses
whisked both babies away from us after Holden was delivered, something I
interpret as somewhat prophetic in the wake of Holden’s death to pneumonia in
March of 2022.
We didn’t know Holden’s days were numbered at the time and by all
appearances he was the healthier of the two twins, weighing about 8 pounds to
Brennan’s 5. Holden was allowed to come
with us shortly after his birth, but Brennan had to stay in Albany Med’s NICU
for a time before it was deemed safe for him to come home.
When Brennan was allowed to come home, he came home with a heart monitor
which would beep loudly whenever Brennan’s little heart would skip a beat,
causing his parents to run in a panic to his crib. We nicknamed Brennan “beeper”
because of it but we had the utmost confidence that he would live.
We had confidence both of our boys would live and when they both had
colds in March 2022, we rushed them to the doctor on a Saturday to get them
checked out. The doctor assured us that
the boys were over their colds and that they would be fine. Two days later I received the traumatic shock
of my life as I woke up with Holden dead in my arms as I had fallen asleep with
him in the recliner in our living room.
I thought I had inadvertently killed Holden in his sleep somehow, but
the coroner’s report explained that Holden’s cold had turned into pneumonia and
that was the cause of death. Although I
have the utmost assurance that Holden is alive in heaven with God, he is my son
who died.
But Brennan, the smaller of the two twins, who was delayed in coming
home with great concern and a heart monitor, got over his cold and lived.
And boy has he lived. A few days ago I wrote about something being the gift
that keeps on giving and that is how I feel about my son, Brennan, sometimes.
Both my son, Brennan, and daughter, Haley, are artists. Haley draws,
paints, and writes stories and actually was the first of my children to bravely
enter into the performing arts but Brennan followed in her footsteps and wasn’t
content to stay in her or in anyone else’s shadow.
Brennan was always an intelligent boy and excelled academically from the
start but his penchant for questioning tradition, the status quo, and authority
that he may have inherited from his father would also cause him to get in trouble
as his passion would occasionally cause him to rebel or lash out in
unpredictable ways or cause him to literally escape the school grounds.
Thankfully, his passions eventually found a more acceptable way of
expression in the performing arts as he became a soloist in the school choirs
and one of the lead performers in the school dramatic performances.
I took great pride in Brennan’s musical and dramatic performances and
because I knew what a gift from God that he was, this was the boy that lived after
all, I would go to all of his performances. But unlike some parents that aren’t
shy to point out their relationship to their child star, I was content to stand
in the shadows and not take any of his glory for myself. I figured that Brennan is a gift from God that
was not just for me but for everyone that his life will touch.
That once small life that the experts doubted was meant to survive and
to thrive. My son, the boy who lived, was meant to survive because of God’s sovereign
will and the joy that he brings to people who see him perform and who befriend
him. The talents that God gave Brennan point to the joy of living and the God
who gave him life even if he isn’t always confident in his direction or sure of
his course.
Brennan was slated to be the lead for his school’s spring musical in 2020,
Little Shop of Horrors, before Covid-19 and horror of forced lockdowns
cancelled his performance and his senior year in effect.
Brennan stagnated in the wake of Covid-19, graduated in summer school,
and spent a “gap year” in my home neither working nor going to school. In that
gap year, I gave many a pep talk and words of encouragement which seemed to
fall on deaf ears as Brennan continued to stay home. In that gap year, many people gave lots of
advice on what I should do to straighten Brennan out, but I remained patient
and encouraging, hoping that he would once again enter into the world to share
his talents and himself with those who could use him.
He was my son and unlike like his father he wasn’t involved in alcohol or
drugs and as far as I was concerned he could take his time in finding his way,
although I admittedly was tested in my patience.
Thankfully, the boy who lived decided to live again and this past fall
he became a full time student at Hudson Valley Community College and recently had
the male lead in the college’s production of Little Women, playing a character
who didn’t ascribe to the status quo and was willing to think outside of the
box, and to use his talents and resources for others, and to do anything for
love.
Not surprisingly, Brennan has new friends and a new attitude. He is not sitting around the house anymore
and although He may not be sure of his ultimate purpose he is giving himself to
the world again.
So today he will be going to Koto for his traditional hibachi birthday
dinner but because of the difficulties in the post-divorce landscapes of our
lives I won’t be in attendance. Brennan will be enjoying his 20th
birthday dinner without either of his parents.
Last night he said he knew I would understand why and said that “I didn’t
care”. I assured him that it was fine
and that it was only natural for a man in his 20’s to gravitate towards his
friends and wish to avoid any familial drama.
I’m a grown up and don’t need to go to the birthday party but my absence
shouldn’t be seen as a lack of care.
While I don’t need to be at the party, my son, and daughter, should know
that I love them dearly and only wish the best for them. I have tried to raise
my children to be independent and I want them to find their way in the world. Their lives are their own and I am immensely
proud of each of them. I understand that
my children are a gift from God that I am to steward and then release into the
world for His purposes and for His glory.
So I am content to stand in the shadows and love them from a distance,
to be proud of them, and to take no portion of their praise or glory.
I can only hope that they know that as much as I love them, their heavenly
Father, God, loves them too. God loves
them much more than me and He sent His Son to earth to prove it.
Father God stands in the shadows of our lives. He provides for us and
pours the talents and abilities we have into us. No matter what mistakes we make or how we
perform He loves us. And when we listen
to His advice, follow Christ’s example, and walk into the good works that God
has prepared for us, He is immensely proud of our accomplishments and basks in
the glory of what we do that reflect His likeness.
As I am reminded of and celebrate my son’s birth today, I would
encourage everyone to get to know that Son who was born in Bethlehem whose
purpose was to reflect His Father’s image and to use His talents and love to
bring us to Him.
The Father stands in the shadows loving you and He sent His son to give
Him glory and to bring you home. So go
home for Christmas. Take the Son’s hand by making Him your Lord and Savior and take
the eternal life and peace with God that comes from accepting His love.
Today’s Bible verse is
drawn from “The NLT Bible Promise Book for Men”.
This morning’s meditation verses are:
Proverbs 2:10-11 (NLT2)
10 For wisdom will enter your
heart, and knowledge will fill you with joy.
11 Wise choices will watch
over you. Understanding will keep you safe.
Today’s verses conclude our short walk into Proverbs 2 and speaks of the experiential aspect of wisdom and the protection that comes through living it out.
Today’s verses speak of an emotional aspect of wisdom. It’s not just good thoughts that enter our brains when we interact with God’s wisdom. The term wisdom means applied knowledge. It is one thing to know facts, it is another to use those facts in how you live your life.
While we can’t assume that any knowledge is universal, most of us would admit that somethings, like smoking or eating non-nutritious foods, are unhealthy or not good for us. While it is great to know that these habits can cause us to suffer, the knowledge doesn’t help us unless we apply it to our lives and decide to abstain from them.
Spiritually, we can also “know” certain things but unless we apply our spiritual knowledge we could be led astray. When we let others make choices for us, we have to be careful and are responsible for the consequences of those decisions.
Recently, that
boy who lived, my son, Brennan went shopping with his girlfriend to purchase
Christmas gifts for their small group of friends. Brennan took a back seat and
relied on his girlfriend’s suggestions for their various friends’ gifts.
One in their
circle of friends apparently has macabre tastes and an interest in the occult.
So Brennan’s girlfriend decided that their friend might enjoy a small giftset on
witchcraft. The box advertised that it
contained a guide to magic, spells, and potions and promised that its spells would
help to “de-stress”, to make your wishes to come true, and to give you a new
adventure for your life.
Brennan doesn’t
believe in witchcraft and didn’t think much of it. So when I came home this
weekend I found this witchcraft gift set sitting on my kitchen table!
I teach
spiritual warfare. I know that witchcraft is prohibited in the Bible and is essentially
the worship of demons and has great potential for harm. So filled with righteous indignation and a desire
to cleanse my house of this demonic gift, I took it and immediately constructed
a bonfire to destroy it. While I was at
it, I also threw in a few books I had purchased that highlighted aberrant religious
practices that I had re-purchased under the guise of research but when the
spirit to cleanse house came they simply had to go to.
So the house is
spiritually cleansed for Christmas, Brennan has professed his non-involvement
with the occult and fully understands that my home is a Christian home and
hopefully will understand that the occult is not to be trifled with.
So sometimes
you have to apply your knowledge, in dramatic experiential ways. I knew witchcraft was no good and followed
the Bible’s teachings on what to do with occult books: we are to burn them.
Knowing that
material is out of my house, has been destroyed, and can’t harm anyone else fills
my heart with joy.
As today’s
verses testifies: “Wise choices will watch over you. Understanding
will keep you safe.” So know the word of
God, stand on what it says, reap the joy of understanding it, and enjoy the safety
that your wise choices that are based on the word of God brings.
As always, I invite all to go to mt4christ.org
where I always share insights from prominent Christian theologians and counselors
to assist my brothers and sisters in Christ with their walk.
Today we continue sharing from A.W. Tozer’s Advent
Devotional – From Heaven, for Day 25 as this
current resource series will lead us to Christmas Eve.
As always, I share this information for educational purposes
and encourage all to purchase A.W. Tozer’s books for your own private study and
to support his work.
DAY 25
THE WONDERS OF GOD DECLARED
No one has ever seen God, but the
one and only Son, who is himself God and is in closest relationship with the
Father, has made him known.
JOHN 1:18
Now the mystery of atonement had to
be performed. Why in the Old Testament did the priest go behind the veil to
perform the ritual of atonement and then come out from behind the veil? It was
God saying, in beautiful symbolism, that there would be a day when another
priest, with other blood, should enter into a realm where the mind of man could
never penetrate, and there in a mystery too deep and dark and wonderful for man
to understand, all alone with none to help him. Not David, not Abraham, not
Paul—no one. Alone in the silence and the darkness he should make atonement for
sin.
And that is what happened. God
stepped back and allowed Him to die. But briefly and quickly, His heart was
joined again to the love of God, for three days later He was raised from the
dead and later ascended to the right hand of God the Father Almighty. And one
day He shall come to judge the quick and the dead.
Now consider the closing line: “has
made him known.” What has Jesus declared about God? There are profundities that
He could never declare, there are depths that He could never declare. But there
are some things He could declare and did and does. He could declare God’s holy
being and, above all, for us poor sinners, He declared God’s love and mercy. So
He has set Him forth, and Jesus Christ tells us in His tender, human being,
that God has a care for us.
I remember hearing years ago of four
or five sons who had been reared in a home, and the old folks were wordless.
They did not say much; they did not show much affection. Nobody did. And the
boys didn’t. After they were babies, they quit kissing their parents and quit
using words of affection and grew to be strong men, and married and separated
and got away. They seldom came home and seldom wrote. And when Mother’s time
had about come, they sent for the boys. They said if they wanted to see her,
come. They came, all of them—big, fine fellows now, each with his own home and
his own business and job. As they stood around her bed, one of them said,
“Mother, we want you to know that you’ve meant a lot to us boys. We haven’t
been unappreciative. We’ve loved you, and we thank you.”
And then they separated and when
they were gone from her, she turned and said to someone by her side, “Oh, if
they had only told me before. These years I’ve wondered if I had meant anything
to them. These years I thought I had failed them. Now they tell me, ‘We’re so
thankful.’ If they had only told me earlier.”
You know it is possible to feel a
lot that you don’t tell. It is possible to have fine intentions that you never
make known. And how easy it might have been for God to have loved us and never
told us, to have been merciful toward us and never revealed it. But the
Scripture says that nobody ever saw God but the only begotten Son. Some
translations say, “the only begotten God,” who is “in the bosom of the Father.”
He has told us. He came to tell us what the silence never told us. He came to tell
us what Moses could not even tell us. He came to tell us that God cares and God
loves and God has a plan and God’s carrying out that plan. And before it all is
finished there will be a multitude—redeemed, out of every tongue and tribe and
nation—that no man can number. That’s what He told us.
He revealed God’s being, love,
grace, mercy, good intention, redemptive intention, saving intention. He gave
it to us. Here it is. It is ours! Now we have only to turn and believe and
accept and take and follow, and it all is ours.
Tozer, A. W. (2016). From heaven: a
28-day advent devotional. Chicago, IL: Moody Publishers.
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