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Friday, November 10, 2023

He Will Restore Your Soul – A Mindful of Christ Encouragement and Reminder - Purity 1195

 

He Will Restore Your Soul – A Mindful of Christ Encouragement and Reminder - Purity 1195

Purity 1195 11/10/2023 Purity 1195 Podcast

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Good morning,

Today’s photo of a “Bridge over Tranquil Waters” comes to us from Fred Dimmick who shared this peaceful scene on social media this week captioning it as “Tranquility at the river”, 

Well, It’s Friday – and as we are observing Veteran’s Day tomorrow, with the day off today, I am at my wife, TammyLyn’s countryside estate for a three-day weekend where I fully expect to discover a measure of tranquility as we are scheduled to see a show tonight, Seussical the Musical, at the Charles R. Wood Theater in Glens Falls this evening for a little fun and I’m not sure what else for tomorrow. But I do know that a long weekend with my wife will give me a peaceful easy feeling just being in her presence.  

Last night after dinner, and before my online Zoom Cohort Meeting with Deeper Walk International’s School of Prayer Ministry, I had a half-hour window of “free time” to spend and instead of trying to get ahead on school or ministry work or do anything “productive”, I just asked TammyLyn if she would “lay with me”.  Now don’t get any funny ideas, while I am a virile sexy beast of a man when I want to be, I just wanted to rejoice in her presence by lying down and holding her in my arms, fully clothed.  I miss my wife during the week and while I only had half an hour to spend, I wanted to invest all of it in my love for her.  So we just held one another and rested in one another’s arms until my meeting began.  Simple times like that can build your relationship and give you rest, and I was reminded how blessed I was to have a wife who loved me and who could relax long enough to do that.

Of course, I didn’t always have TammyLyn. After my previous marriage was destroyed by divorce, I decided to follow the provisions for gentile Christians highlighted in Acts 15, and remained sexually pure and was fully prepared to remain that way for the rest of my life, with the hope that I wouldn’t have to of course, and thankfully the Lord brought TammyLyn into my life in 2021, and she became be my faithful Christian wife  on New Year’s Day 2022. So how did I cope between 2018 and 2021? Where did I find my rest? Where did I restore my soul?

Although I wasn’t dating, I wasn’t alone. I had friends in the body of Christ and family  in my life of course but the relationship that has persisted and carried me through some of the worst days of my life, was my relationship with the Lord. In his presence, I find strength, peace, love, and joy. He can restore our soul.  

So in the spirit of restoring our souls, I share Lauren Roskilly’s short encouragement based on Psalm 23:2-3, that sent out as this week’s Word for Wednesday from her ministry Mindful of Christ.net  You can subscribe to receive emails of Lauren’s Word for Wednesday for yourself to be encouraged weekly and be equipped by other Christian Resources by Lauren Roskilly by going to https://mindfulofchrist.net/. 

Psalm 23:2-3 (ESV)
2  He makes me lie down in green pastures. He leads me beside still waters.
3  He restores my soul. He leads me in paths of righteousness for his name’s sake.

Lauren writes:

 

He will restore your soul

 

We all have the ability and privilege of being able to spend time with Him in his presence. When you do, He will lead you by still waters and restore your soul!

 

By simply sitting in His presence you will also:

- Experience His peace, love & joy (fruits of the Spirit)

- Find calmness

- Hear His voice

 

So, stop, take time out and rest with the Lord. Whether you are 'busy', stressed' or simply trundling through life, we all need the Lord.

 

But, perhaps you need to be intentional about it. For instance; Make a post-it note, add it to the calendar, set reminders.

This week, challenge yourself to make time to sit still with Him.

 

So if you want to experience those green pastures, be led beside those still waters & be restored then make your time with Him your priority.”

Thanks for that simple advice and encouragement, Lauren! So as many of us have a three day weekend, let me encourage you to take my friend’s advice and make time with the Lord a priority because while we may be able to find a measure of rest and relaxation in the world, only a close personal relationship with God, through faith in Jesus Christ, and time spent in His presence can restore your soul.  

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For those who want more evidence for Christianity than my simple encouragements provide, I offer apologist, Frank Turek’s website, https://crossexamined.org/ .

Today’s Bible verse comes to us from “The Quick Scripture Reference for Counseling” By John G. Kruis.

( While Bible verses on various topics of Counseling can be found with a quick Google search, we encourage you to purchase this resource to support the late author’s work. (https://www.amazon.com/Quick-Scripture-Reference-Counseling-Kruis-ebook/dp/B00CIUJZT2?ref_=ast_author_dp )

This morning’s meditation verses come from the section on Children.

2 Samuel 12:18-23 (ESV)
18  On the seventh day the child died. And the servants of David were afraid to tell him that the child was dead, for they said, “Behold, while the child was yet alive, we spoke to him, and he did not listen to us. How then can we say to him the child is dead? He may do himself some harm.”
19  But when David saw that his servants were whispering together, David understood that the child was dead. And David said to his servants, “Is the child dead?” They said, “He is dead.”
20  Then David arose from the earth and washed and anointed himself and changed his clothes. And he went into the house of the LORD and worshiped. He then went to his own house. And when he asked, they set food before him, and he ate.
21  Then his servants said to him, “What is this thing that you have done? You fasted and wept for the child while he was alive; but when the child died, you arose and ate food.”
22  He said, “While the child was still alive, I fasted and wept, for I said, ‘Who knows whether the LORD will be gracious to me, that the child may live?’
23  But now he is dead. Why should I fast? Can I bring him back again? I shall go to him, but he will not return to me.”.

Today’s verses fall under the sixth point of our counseling reference guide resource’s section on Children.

 6. David was comforted by the knowledge that his infant son went to heaven when he died and that he would see him there.

Today’s verses remind us that even in the deepest tragedy of death we can have hope because there is life after death and the faithful know that they will see their faithful loved ones again.  

Some may have thought David was a little cold in “getting over” his son’s death so soon but we all grieve differently and when you have a deep faith and knowledge that God has our loved ones in His hands, we can have a peace over our loved one’s departure.  

For the Christian, we don’t need to wonder where our departed loved ones go, or if their leaving us was “right”.  We know that God gives us life and He decides when to take it. We also know that He is good and that His ways are higher than our ways. So while we may not understand why our loved ones had to die when and how they did, we can trust that God either has them safe with in His kingdom or they have rightly been judged and sent where they chose to go.  If you choose to reject God’s presence in life, you can be assured you won’t be forced into after death.  We are all responsible for the consequences of our decisions and no one ends up where they didn’t choose in the end.  

David knew this and He knew God would lovingly welcome his son, an innocent baby, into His kingdom and because, David had a heart for God and a covenant relationship with Him, he knew he would see his son again.   

Our faith in and relationship with God is the most important thing about us. It holds the answer to life and death and determines where we go beyond this mortal coil.  Until Jesus returns death will come, but those in Christ will live and the only work we will have to do in grief is to adjust from the absence of our lost loved ones from our lives here on earth, because if they knew Jesus, we will see them again.   

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As always, I invite all to go to mt4christ.org where I always share insights from prominent Christian theologians and counselors to assist my brothers and sisters in Christ with their walk.

Today we are sharing from A. W. Pink’s – The Arthur Pink Anthology  - a collection of A.W. Pink’s tracts brought together in one book and dispersed here on the blog for your encouragement.

As always, I share this information for educational purposes and encourage you all to purchase A.W. Pink’s books for your own private study and to support his work.  This resource is available online for free as a PDF at many sites, but printed copies of collections of A.W. Pink’s books are available for purchase wherever Christian books are sold. 

The Arthur Pink Anthology – 4

Bearing the Rod – Part 2 of 2

If the “trouble” through which we are passing at any period of our lives be a reproof from God because of our sins or unfaithfulness, and instead of suspecting that He is displeased with us and taking our place in the dust before Him, begging Him to put His finger on the festering sore in our hearts: if instead, we proudly imagine that there is nothing wrong in our lives, that we have given God no cause to smite us, and complacently assume that we are suffering only for “righteousness’ sake,” and draw comfort from such promises as Matthew 5:11, 12, we are deceived by Satan, and are but “forsaking our own mercy” (Jonah 2:8). It is written, He that covereth his sins shall not prosper” (Prov. 28:13). Thus, whenever “trouble” comes upon a Christian it is always the safest policy to come to the Lord and say, “Teach me, and I will hold my tongue: and cause me to understand wherein I have erred” (Job 5:24).

From what has been said above, it will be seen that it often falls to the lot of God’s servants to perform a duty which is most unpleasant to the flesh. When they come into contact with a Brother or Sister who is passing through deep waters, their natural desire is to administer comfort, but in some instances (at least) to do so would be guilty of “healing also the hurt of the daughter of My people slightly:” and how is this done? The same verse tells us, by “saying, Peace, peace, when there is no peace” (Jer. 6:14). That was what the ‘false prophets” had done to Israel, and that was the very thing which carnal Israel desired: their demand was, “Prophesy not unto us right things, speak to us smooth things, prophesy deceits” (Isa. 30:10); and human nature has not changed any since then!

It is a thankless task for any true servant of Christ today to be faithful to his Master, and faithful to the souls of those with whom he deals. Not that God requires him to think the worst of every case that comes to his notice, but that it is his burden duty to exhort each one to act on Job 10:2. But if he does do so, he may be assured at the beginning, that in the majority of cases he will be looked upon as harsh, hypercritical, unkind, like one of Job’s censorious comforters; for there are few indeed who have an honest heart, are ready to know the worst about themselves, and are willing to be cut by the knife of God’s Word. The great majority want only comfort, the “promises” of Scripture, the message of “Peace, peace.

But do not the Promises of God belong unto His children? Certainly they do: but here too “there is a season, and a time to every purpose” (Eccl. 3:1): there is a time when we may rightfully draw consolation and strength from the promises, and there is a time when we may not legitimately do so. When all is right between our souls and God, when every known sin has been confessed, and forsaken in sincere purpose of heart, then may we righteously draw milk from the breasts of Divine consolation. But just as there are times when it would be injurious for us to eat some of the things we do when we are well, so to take unto ourselves comfort from the Divine promises while sin is cherished in our hearts, is baneful and sinful.

The above (now slightly revised) recently sent by us in a letter to one passing through deep waters. It occurred to us that it might be a timely word for others. Many are now in the fiery furnace, and few indeed are there capable of speaking to them a word in season. It is not sufficient to bid them “Trust in God,” and assure them that brighter days are ahead. The conscience needs to be searched; the wound must be probed and cleansed, before it is ready for “the balm of Gilead;” we must humble ourselves “beneath the mighty hand of God” (1 Pet. 5:6), if we are to be exalted again by Him in “due time.” May the Lord be pleased to bless the above unto some of “His own.”[1]

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Join our “Victory over the Darkness”, “The Bondage Breaker”, "Freedom in Christ" series of Discipleship Classes via the mt4christ247 podcast!

at https://mt4christ247.podbean.com, You can also find it on Apple podcasts

(https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-mt4christ247s-podcast/id1551615154). The mt4christ247 podcast is also available on Google Podcasts, Amazon Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartradio, and Audible.com. 

These teachings are also available on the MT4Christ247 YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@MT4Christ247

Email me at mt4christ247@gmail.com to receive the class materials, share your progress, and to be encouraged.

My wife, TammyLyn, also offers Christian encouragement via her Ask Seek Knock blog (https://tammylynask.blogspot.com/ ),  her Facebook Group: Ask, Seek, Knock (https://www.facebook.com/groups/529047851449098 ) and her podcast Ask, Seek, and Knock on Podbean (https://feed.podbean.com/tammalyn78/feed.xml)

“The views, opinions, and commentary of this publication are those of the author, M.T. Clark, only, and do not purport to reflect the opinions or views of any of the photographers, artists, ministries, or other authors of the other works that may be included in this publication, and do not necessarily reflect the views or positions of any entities the author may represent.”

Encouragement for the Path of Christian Discipleship



[1] Arthur Walkington Pink, The Arthur Pink Anthology (Bellingham, WA: Logos Bible Software, 2005).


Monday, July 10, 2023

Dancing with Myself - Self-Deception Series 1 – Purity 1090

Dancing with Myself - Self-Deception Series 1 – Purity 1090

Purity 1090 07/10/2023 Purity 1090 Podcast

Purity 1090 on YouTube: 



Good morning,

Today’s work of art, “The Scream” by Edvard Munch, comes to us, from Munch obviously, and yours truly as I capture this 1895 lithograph version of Munch’s iconic 1893 painting while visiting the Clark Art Institute in Williamstown, Mass yesterday.  

Well, It’s Monday and while the return of the work week may want to cause you to scream, recent insights into my personal walk of faith have me absolutely howling at the moon like a broken hearted timber wolf because, while I pride myself with my ability to overcome and stay close to the Lord on the path of Christina Discipleship, it was revealed to me that I may have been “dancing with myself” more than “walking and talking with God”!   

Over the last week, I have been exposed to several Christian resources that have led me to the conclusion that I have been deceiving myself! 

The first of which was the audiobook version of Dallas Willard’s Renovation of the Heart, specifically from chapter 5: Spiritual Change- The Reliable Pattern.  I listened to it two or three times over the last week or so because it is jam packed with spiritual wisdom and addresses the topic of spiritual transformation – becoming more and more like Jesus.  I paraphrased/misquoted one of the lines from this chapter last week as the title of one of my blog posts- “God isn’t going to drag you kicking and screaming into a transformed life”, Dallas’s quote said something about God picking you up by the seat of the pants…. But the sentiment was the same.  Basically you have to want to be transformed, and you have to set your intention to do so.   

Willard Present VIM – Vision, Intention, and Means as an acronym of the process of Spiritual formation.  

Vision – we have to see that transformation is possible. We have to be convinced that our transformation can actually happen. We have to believe it to receive it.  

Intention – We have to set the intention to actually surrender to the process of being transformed. We have to “want to be made well” and we have to put our thoughts and action behind our desire to change. We not only have to “want it” in some general sense – We have to personally choose to pursue and accomplish the goals we wish to obtain.  

Means – We have to examine, investigate the matter at hand and discover the MEANS by which we will accomplish our goal, and maintain and remain in our transformed life.   We have to know how to get from A to B and stay the course, from this point forward. A transformed life means there is no going back, so we don’t just “try hard and get there”, we get a vision, set our intention, and accomplish and remain in our transformed state. 

Our goal of being set free and being conformed to the image of Christ is not behavior modification, it is spiritual transformation – we have to be changed from the inside out and we have to go to God to help us because we can’t do it on our own.

This is not self-improvement plan we are on here, we are on the path of Christian Discipleship – walking in the Spirit – and so God has to be a part of this process.  We have to ABIDE in Him, ask Him for strength and guidance, and most importantly we have to OBEY.  

The other resource that has further convicted me of the fact that I have been deceiving myself in certain areas of my walk was a teaching by Jim Logan that I watched yesterday on “Getting Free & Staying Free” (https://www.jimlogan.org/media/series/53jt6b9/getting-and-staying-free-jim-logan). I am sharing the link for this series on the blog.  In part 6, Logan talks about how pride leads to destruction and how every temptation comes from the enemy. His teaching convicted me that some of the choices I have made in “giving myself grace” with the my health goals were nothing more than my prideful decision to disregard “the truth” and go against my “intention” to lose enough weight to no longer need a sleep apnea device.   

While I have made great strides with my health and have been content over not being where I was, and gaining some definition with some areas of my body, I have given into indulging the flesh and “self sabotaged” my intentions to push through the “obesity” zone.   Subtly I have believe the lie that “I’m different” or “I deserve a break” that has told me that my freedom and victory is limited in some way when objective reality, if nothing else, testifies of the truth that yes a 6 foot male, can live at a healthy weight and not need a sleep apnea device -  there are probably hundreds of thousands if not millions, of men in the world, most without Jesus, that this is not an issue for. Granted there are many who are in my situation or worse, but reality tells me – those guys over there did it -so I could do it too.  

So the mental dialog that says:

“I can’t do it”

I don’t want to

I “need to have this”

I always have “that”

I don’t like this

Are all barriers, lies that hold a degree of truth, that cloud my vision, degradedmy intention, and mess up the means to a life that is set free.   

But most importantly,  I have forgotten the “face of my Father” – I have forgotten the basic lessons I have already learned about freedom and victory.  And basic lesson is that “I can’t do it, God has to help me and I have to surrender to Him, and go to Him to receive the help and not “pridefully” decided that I can do it on my own, or I can set the conditions and decide on the means of my transformation.   I have been “dancing with myself” in this area of my life – deciding that compromise was okay and that “I had to do this on my own”.   

I would have never gained victory over alcohol, drugs, or sex addiction on my own so why did I decide that I could get healthy on my own?

Self deception.  Thanks God I got this…. I don’t think so.  I haven’t “had it” because the victory and freedom has not come.   The idea of having a vision and setting our intention is that we will accomplish what we set out to do…  If we haven’t, we really need to look at where we messed up.  

And in my case, it was in subtly deciding that I was on my own with my health goals. 

So today I launch a new series on self-deception because I realize that we all have blind spots and I hope to point out different ways we deceive ourselves.  So tune in tomorrow and the days and possibly weeks ahead to see how I, and maybe you, have lied to ourselves and in turn decided to not experience all that the Lord has for us.  


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For those who want more evidence for Christianity than my simple encouragements provide, I offer apologist, Frank Turek’s website, https://crossexamined.org/ .

Today’s Bible verse comes to us from “The Quick Scripture Reference for Counseling” By John G. Kruis.

( While Bible verses on various topics of Counseling can be found with a quick google search, we encourage you to purchase this resource to support the late author’s work. (https://www.amazon.com/Quick-Scripture-Reference-Counseling-Kruis-ebook/dp/B00CIUJZT2?ref_=ast_author_dp )

This morning’s meditation verses come from the section on Adultery:

2 Samuel 12:1-14 (ESV)
1  And the LORD sent Nathan to David. He came to him and said to him, “There were two men in a certain city, the one rich and the other poor.
2  The rich man had very many flocks and herds,
3  but the poor man had nothing but one little ewe lamb, which he had bought. And he brought it up, and it grew up with him and with his children. It used to eat of his morsel and drink from his cup and lie in his arms, and it was like a daughter to him.
4  Now there came a traveler to the rich man, and he was unwilling to take one of his own flock or herd to prepare for the guest who had come to him, but he took the poor man’s lamb and prepared it for the man who had come to him.”
5  Then David’s anger was greatly kindled against the man, and he said to Nathan, “As the LORD lives, the man who has done this deserves to die,
6  and he shall restore the lamb fourfold, because he did this thing, and because he had no pity.”
7  Nathan said to David, “You are the man! Thus says the LORD, the God of Israel, ‘I anointed you king over Israel, and I delivered you out of the hand of Saul.
8  And I gave you your master’s house and your master’s wives into your arms and gave you the house of Israel and of Judah. And if this were too little, I would add to you as much more.
9  Why have you despised the word of the LORD, to do what is evil in his sight? You have struck down Uriah the Hittite with the sword and have taken his wife to be your wife and have killed him with the sword of the Ammonites.
10  Now therefore the sword shall never depart from your house, because you have despised me and have taken the wife of Uriah the Hittite to be your wife.’
11  Thus says the LORD, ‘Behold, I will raise up evil against you out of your own house. And I will take your wives before your eyes and give them to your neighbor, and he shall lie with your wives in the sight of this sun.
12  For you did it secretly, but I will do this thing before all Israel and before the sun.’”
13  David said to Nathan, “I have sinned against the LORD.” And Nathan said to David, “The LORD also has put away your sin; you shall not die.
14  Nevertheless, because by this deed you have utterly scorned the LORD, the child who is born to you shall die.”

Today’s verses fall under the 10th point of our counseling reference guide resource’s section on adultery, 10. “Nathan called David to repent of his adultery”. 

I’m short on time so I will point out how David deceived himself by believing his sin was hidden and thus he was free of the consequences.  He thought he had covered all the bases and he was safe.  But the prophet Nathan got a word from  God to cleverly craft a message to convict David of the depth of His depravity and let Him know that God sees everything.   

Rules are meant to be broken, but don’t get caught” – doesn’t work guys, because God sees everything and sin corrupts everything. So confess and repent, and repeat. We can’t hide our sin but through Christ we can be forgiven and given the power to turn from it.

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As always, I invite all to go to mt4christ.org where I always share insights from prominent Christian theologians and counselors to assist my brothers and sisters in Christ with their walk.

Today we continue sharing from  The Holy Spirit By A.W. Pink.

As always, I share this information for educational purposes and encourage you all to purchase A.W. Pink’s books for your own private study and to support his work.  This resource is available online for $0.99 (https://www.amazon.com/Holy-Spirit-Arthur-Pink-Collection-ebook/dp/B008CM5292/ref=sr_1_3?crid=AHKAQOM39CTN&keywords=a.w.+pink+the+holy+spirit&qid=1684376225&sprefix=a.w.+pink+the+holy+spirit+%2Caps%2C96&sr=8-3

A.W. Pink’s The Holy Spirit

12 - The Spirit Enlightening

Characteristics of Enlightenment

In closing, let us seek to define a little more definitely some of the characteristics of this Divine enlightenment.

First, it is one which gives certainty to the soul. It enables its favored possessor to say, “One thing I know, that, whereas I was blind, now I see” (John 9:25). And again, “I know whom I have believed, and am persuaded that He is able to keep that which I have committed unto Him against that day” (2 Tim. 1:12). Later, Satan may be permitted to inject unbelieving and atheistic thoughts into his mind, but it is utterly impossible for him to persuade any quickened and enlightened soul that God has no existence, that Christ is a myth, that the Scriptures are a human invention. God in Christ has become a living reality to him, and the more He appears to the soul the sum of all excellence, the more is He loved.

Second, this Divine enlightenment is transforming. Herein it differs radically from a natural knowledge of Divine things, such as the unregenerate may acquire intellectually, but which produces no real and lasting impression upon the soul. A spiritual apprehension of Divine things is an efficacious one, stamping the image thereof upon the heart, and molding it into their likeness: “But we all, with open face beholding as in a glass the glory of the Lord, are changed into the same image from glory to glory, by the Spirit of the Lord” (2 Cor. 3:18). Thus this spiritual illumination is vastly different from a mere notional and inoperative knowledge of Divine things. The Spirit’s enlightenment enables the Christian to “show forth the praises of him who hath called him out of darkness into his marvelous light” (1 Pet. 2:9).

Third, this Divine enlightenment is a spiritual preservative. This is evident from 1 John 2:20, though to make it fully clear unto the reader an exposition of that verse in the light of its context is required. In 1 John 2:18 the Apostle had mentioned the “many antichrists” (to be headed up in the antichrist), which were to characterize this final dispensation: seducers from the Faith were numerous even before the close of the first century AD. In 1 John 2:19 reference is made to those who had fallen under the spell of these deceivers, and who had in consequence, apostatized from Christianity. In sharp contrast therefrom, the Apostle affirms, “But ye have an unction from the Holy One, and ye know all things” (v. 20). Here was the Divine preservative: the Spirit’s enlightenment ensured the saints from being captured by Satan’s emissaries. Apostates had never been anointed by the Spirit; renewed souls are, and this safeguards them. The voice of a stranger “will they not follow” (John 10:5). It is not possible to fatally “deceive” one of God’s elect (Matthew 24:24). The same precious truth is found again in 1 John 2:27: the Spirit indwells the Christian “forever” (John 14:16), hence the “anointing” he has received “abideth in him” and thus guarantees that he shall “abide in Christ.”[1]

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Join our “Victory over the Darkness”, “The Bondage Breaker”, "Freedom in Christ" series of Discipleship Classes via the mt4christ247 podcast!

at https://mt4christ247.podbean.com, You can also find it on Apple podcasts

(https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-mt4christ247s-podcast/id1551615154). The mt4christ247 podcast is also available on Google Podcasts, Amazon Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartradio, and Audible.com. 

These teachings are also available on the MT4Christ247 You Tube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@MT4Christ247

Email me at mt4christ247@gmail.com to receive the class materials, share your progress, and to be encouraged.

My wife, TammyLyn, also offers Christian encouragement via her Ask Seek Knock blog (https://tammylynask.blogspot.com/ ),  her Facebook Group: Ask, Seek, Knock (https://www.facebook.com/groups/529047851449098 ) and her podcast Ask, Seek, and Knock on Podbean (https://feed.podbean.com/tammalyn78/feed.xml)

For those who require the assistance of a Deeper Walk International Prayer Minister to experience healing or your freedom in Christ, I highly recommend Christy Edge’s Life on the Edge Freedom Prayer Ministry. You can schedule a session by going to : https://cedge216.wixsite.com/life-on-the-edge     

“The views, opinions, and commentary of this publication are those of the author, M.T. Clark, only, and do not purport to reflect the opinions or views of any of the photographers, artists, ministries, or other authors of the other works that may be included in this publication, and do not necessarily reflect the views or positions of any entities the author may represent.”

Encouragement for the Path of Christian Discipleship


[1] Arthur Walkington Pink, The Holy Spirit (Bellingham, WA: Logos Bible Software, n.d.).

 

Saturday, April 22, 2023

I Can’t Grieve as a Christian – Lies of the Enemy #12– Purity 1024

I Can’t Grieve as a Christian – Lies of the Enemy #12– Purity 1024

Purity 1024 04/22/2023  Purity 1024 Podcast

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Good morning,

Today’s photo of a shadow falling over Waite Rd by a late afternoon sun shining through the trees that are still awaiting the budding leaves of spring to emerge as the bright green grassland on the opposite side of the road announces that spring has sprung comes to us from yours truly as capture this scene of contrasts on the way back to my countryside home yesterday afternoon while out walking my canine friend, Harley. I was feeling the contrast of being somewhat weary over a rather rough day at work, being happy to be out in the sun and walking the dog, and lonely because my wife was away at her youngest son’s track meet and wouldn’t be with me for an other hour or so.  Who ever said may have said that “life is simple” obviously didn’t consider the complexities of human existence. We can have “mixed emotions” and be facing several different situations in life all at once during these years walking about the earth which I believe stresses the importance of having the “constant” of a robust relationship with the Lord that is uncompromising in its ability to give us strength, peace, and comfort.   

Well, It’s Saturday, and I am sharing this photo of contrasts this morning because while I have now been reunited with my wife and look forward to a “sun shiny”  day (not sure how sunny it actually be – but rains not in the forecast) with my wife, some one dear if not near to us here at MT4Christ has suffered the loss of her beloved spouse.  This little blog and podcast has amazingly touched the lives of people throughout the world and yesterday, on the podcast, I offered up prayers for FB friend, “Deborah Howard”’s husband Bob who at the time had suffered a heart attack and was being treated with an anticipated surgery on the horizon.  Unfortunately this morning, just before 2am, Deborah messaged me to tell me that Bob has died and was asking for help with dealing with the loss, with a Bible verse or some words of wisdom.  

I shared 2 Samuel 12:15-23, the story of David losing his infant son, and how he was deeply grieved by his son’s illness and how he prayed and fasted in hopes that the Lord would heal him, But upon learning of his son’s death, his actions changed.  His servants asked him why while his son was alive he fasted, but now that he was dead, he ate.  David responded in:

2 Samuel 12:22-23 (NKJV)
22  And he said, "While the child was alive, I fasted and wept; for I said, 'Who can tell whether the LORD will be gracious to me, that the child may live?'
23  But now he is dead; why should I fast? Can I bring him back again? I shall go to him, but he shall not return to me."

The next verse goes on to tell us that David comforted his wife, Bathsheba.  David had a heart for God but in the midst of this loss, he knew that his son lived with the Lord now and one day he would “go to him” and so he found the strength in his grief to comfort his wife.  

 

I also shared: 

 

Job 1:20-21 (NKJV) that tells us
20  Then Job arose, tore his robe, and shaved his head; and he fell to the ground and worshiped.
21  And he said: "Naked I came from my mother's womb, And naked shall I return there. The LORD gave, and the LORD has taken away; Blessed be the name of the LORD."  

Job grieved by tearing his clothes and shaving his head but even in his grief he recognized that the gift of his children had been given to him by God and it was also up to God when he would have Job’s children return to Him.  

I shared these verses with Deborah to remind her of the truth that her husband Bob, who confirmed his faith in Christ by being baptized, with Deborah a few years back, was not dead but was now alive in God’s kingdom. His suffering is over and his joy is complete as Bob now lives in the presence of the Lord.  

But I also sought to comfort Deborah by assuring her that she should allow herself to grieve Bob’s loss and she should seek whatever comfort and support her family and friends may offer in the days ahead and to also draw close to God to receive the strength, comfort, and guidance that He has for her as well.  

And considering Deborah’s loss, as part of our current series which is an examination of some of the common lies that the enemy tells us to cause us to doubt our faith, steal our peace, or to influence us to choose not to follow the Lord with the way we live our lives, I have decided to take on one of the lies of enemy that he likes to whisper to the grieving in times like this. 

Today’s big lie is:

Lie # 12:  I Can’t Grieve as a Christian.

The enemy is the accuser of the brethren and he doesn’t fight fair and loves to take the opportunity to kick us when we are down.  And so in the wake of loss, he loves to bring more pain into an already painful situation.  

When people die, the enemy can cause us to doubt our faith or the existence God and heaven. He can stir up bitterness between family members and friends. He can rekindle or start new disputes as people gather in the loss of their loved one.  He can cause people to seek comfort in drugs, alcohol, or other sins of the flesh.  He can cause people to become possessive. greedy, and petty over material possessions that the departed leave behind.   And he can even twist and distort our faith in an attempt to accuse us, shame us, or plant the seeds for that can sprout into pain in the future.   

The first person lie he loves to whisper into Christians or even to speak through well meaning members of the body of Christ, is “I can’t grieve as a Christian.”   

In some Christian circles, funerals are heralded as “life celebrations” and there can be great expressions of joy where people gather together to honor their departed love one by remembering the legacy they left behind but paradoxically these well intentioned gatherings that seek to focus on the positives of a Christian’s life and their heavenly destination, can also breed confusion, anger, and depression. 

Non-believers or even Christians could be confused of the idea “being happy” when they are suffering the loss. They could even get angry at these “joyful mourners” because they feel that they aren’t really dealing with the loss and are disrespecting them and their departed loved one by adequately acknowledging that they have died and that the loss hurts.   And Christians seeking to be “good Christians” may feel they have to repress their grief and show everyone their faith by putting on a “happy face” while their hearts are broken.  

The verses above about David and Job should show us that we can grieve as Christians.  Even,

John 11:35 (NKJV) tells us that:
35  Jesus wept.

Even though Jesus knew that he was going to raise Lazarus from the dead, Jesus grieved his loss. Jesus wept.   

So as Christians, we should express our grief in whatever ways we feel at the time. The key is to be emotionally honest. While our faith and relationship with the truth on eternal matters and with God can be an incredible comfort and source of strength in dark times, we shouldn’t allow the twisting of our faith to repress our emotions and not adequately process our grief.  

If you want to weep, weep.  If you want to be angry, be angry but try not to sin. But if you sin, repent of it and ask for forgiveness. If you want to be joyful, be joyful but remember to draw close to God to receive the strength, comfort, and guidance that He always has for us, even long after the departed are laid to rest and the rest of the world “move on” with their lives.  

God is near to the broken hearted and He is with those who choose to put their faith in Jesus and decide to surrender to His will for their lives.   The Lord gives and the Lord takes away on this earth but He never leaves or forsakes His children.  

So combat the enemy’s lie that tells you that “Christians can’t grieve” or anything else that would seek to twist our faith or steal our peace. And I ask all who hear or read this message to pray for the comfort and peace of Deborah and her family in the wake of Bob’s departure from their lives.  

 

For those Grieving I recommend H. Norman Wright’s Experiencing Grief (https://www.amazon.com/Experiencing-Grief-audiobook/dp/B06XPX9HRP/ref=sr_1_2?keywords=H.+Norman+Wright&qid=1682160072&s=audible&sr=1-2)  or Jun Hunt’s Grief: Living at Peace with Loss (https://www.amazon.com/Grief-June-Hunt-Hope-Heart/dp/1596366575)

For those who want more evidence for Christianity than my simple apologetic will provide, I offer apologist, Frank Turek’s website, https://crossexamined.org/ .

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Today’s Bible verse comes to us from “The NLT Bible Promise Book for Men”.

This morning’s meditation verse :

1 Timothy 4:16 (NLT2)
16  Keep a close watch on how you live and on your teaching. Stay true to what is right for the sake of your own salvation and the salvation of those who hear you.

 

Today’s verse tells us to be cognizant of how we live our lives and what we say to others, as we should want to be consistent by doing what is right for our own sake as well as for the sake of others.   

 

Today’s verse tells us to be authentic Christians, to be real; to not just talk the talk but to walk the walk as a disciple of Jesus Christ. Our lives are a living testimony of our faith and so we want to be sure that what we do and say reflects the fact that we are Christians in every aspect of our lives.  

 

While we will never be able to perfectly express “what it means to be a Christian” in every aspect of our lives, perfectly, all the time, we can be surprised by just how much are lives are transformed when we seek to keep a close watch on how we live our lives and how it lines us with God’s word.  

 

And we seek to live authentically for two reasons. 

 

While we are assured of our salvation when we put our faith in Jesus, we may not be free and experiencing the abundant life that God wants us to live because we are “double minded” – saying we are a Christian but living like the rest of the unbelieving world.  SO we keep a close watch on our lives and speech to be conformed to the image of Christ, so that we will have harmony with God and overcome the bondages that are put on us by the world the flesh and the devil.  

 

The second reason is that as “ambassadors of Christ, we represent Christians to the non-believing world.  So we want to show that we are not one of those “hypocrites” in the church by really “speaking the gospel” with the way we live.   Our example could be used by God to save someone!  

 

So for yourself, and your neighbor keep a close watch on how you live and try to stay true to the salvation that you have received and that you represent and could bring to others.  

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As always, I invite all to go to mt4christ.org where I always share insights from prominent Christian theologians and counselors to assist my brothers and sisters in Christ with their walk.

Today we continue sharing from A.W. Pink’s “The Sovereignty of God.”

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THE SOVEREIGNTY OF GOD

By  ARTHUR W. PINK

APPENDIX II

THE CASE OF ADAM

In our chapter on God’s Sovereignty and Human Responsibility we dealt only with the responsibility of man considered as a fallen creature, and at the close of the discussion it was pointed out how that the measure and extent of our responsibility varies in different individuals, according to the advantages they have received and the privileges they have enjoyed, which is a truth clearly established by the declaration of the Saviour recorded in Luke 12:47, 48, “And that servant, which knew his lord’s will, and prepared not himself, neither did according to his will, shall be beaten with many stripes. But he that knew not, and did not commit things worthy of stripes, shall be beaten with few stripes. For unto whomsoever much is given, of him shall be much required: and to whom men have committed much, of him they will ask the more.”

Now, strictly speaking, there are only two men who have ever walked this earth which were endowed with full and unimpaired responsibility, and they were the first and last Adam’s. The responsibility of each of the rational descendants of Adam, while real, and sufficient to establish them accountable to their Creator is, nevertheless, limited in degree, limited because impaired through the effects of the Fall.

Not only is the responsibility of each descendant of Adam sufficient to constitute him, personally an accountable creature (that is, as one so constituted that he ought to do right and ought not to do wrong), but originally every one of us was also endowed, judicially, with full and unimpaired responsibility, not in ourselves, but, in Adam. It should ever be borne in mind that not only was Adam the father of the human race seminally but he was also head of the race legally. When Adam was placed in Eden he stood there as our representative so that what he did is reckoned to the account of each for whom he acted.

It is beside our present purpose to enter here into a lengthy discussion of the Federal Headship of Adam*, suffice it now to refer the reader to Romans 5:12–19 where this truth is dealt with by the Holy Spirit. In the heart of this most important passage we are told that Adam was “the figure of Him that was to come” (v. 14), that is, of Christ. In what sense, then, was Adam “the figure of Christ?” The answer must be, In that he was a Federal Head; in that he acted on the behalf of a race of men; in that he was one who has legally, as well as vitally, affected all connected with him. It is for this reason that the Lord Jesus is in 1 Cor. 15–45 denominated “the last Adam,” that is, the Head of the new creation, as the first Adam was the Head of the old creation.

In Adam, then, each of us stood. As the representative of the human race the first man acted. As then Adam was created with full and unimpaired responsibility, unimpaired because there was no evil nature within him; and as we were all “in Adam,” it necessarily follows that all of us, originally, were also endowed with full and unimpaired responsibility. Therefore, in Eden, it was not merely the responsibility of Adam as a single person that was tested but it was Human Responsibility, the Responsibility of the Race, as a whole and in part, which was on trial.

Webster defines responsibility first, as “liable to account”; second, as “able to discharge an obligation.” Perhaps the meaning and scope of the term responsibility might be expressed and summed up in the one word oughtness. Godwards, responsibility respects that which is due the Creator from the creature, and which the creature is under moral obligations to render.

In the light of the above definition it is at once apparent that responsibility is something that must be placed on trial. And as a fact, that is, as we learn from the Inspired Record, exactly what transpired in Eden. Adam was placed on probation. His obligations to God were put to the test. His loyalty to the Creator was tried out. The test consisted of obedience to his Maker’s command. Of a certain tree he was forbidden to eat.

But right here a very formidable difficulty confronts us. From God’s standpoint the result of Adam’s probation was not left in uncertainty. Before He formed him out of the dust of the ground and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life God knew exactly how the appointed test would terminate. With this statement every Christian reader must be in accord, for, to deny God’s foreknowledge is to deny His omniscience, and this is to repudiate one of the fundamental attributes of Deity. But we must go further: not only had God a perfect foreknowledge of the outcome of Adam’s trial, not only did His omniscient eye see Adam eating of the forbidden fruit, but He decreed beforehand that he should do so. This is evident not only from the general fact that nothing happens save that which the Creator and Governor of the universe has eternally purposed, but also from the express declaration of Scripture that Christ as a Lamb “verily was foreordained before the foundation of the world” (1 Peter 1:20). If, then, God had foreordained before the foundation of the world that Christ should, in due time, be offered as a Sacrifice for sin, then it is unmistakably evident that God had also foreordained sin should enter the world, and if so, that Adam should transgress and fall. In full harmony with this, God Himself placed in Eden the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, and also allowed the Serpent to enter and deceive Eve.

Here then is the difficulty: If God has eternally decreed that Adam should eat of the tree, how could he be held responsible not to eat of it? Formidable as the problm appears, nevertheless, it is capable of a solution, a solution, moreover, which can be grasped even by the finite mind. The solution is to be found in the distinction between God’s secret will and His revealed will. As stated in Appendix I, human responsibility is measured by our knowledge of God’s revealed will; what God has told us, not what what He has not told us, is the definer of our duty. So it was with Adam.

That God had decreed sin should enter this world through the disobedience of our first parents was a secret hid in His own breast. Of this Adam knew nothing, and that made all the difference so far as his responsibility was concerned. Adam was quite unacquainted with the Creator’s hidden counsels. What concerned him was God’s revealed will. And that was plain! God had forbidden him to eat of the tree, and that was enough. But God went further: He even warned Adam of the dire consequences which would follow should he disobey—death would be the penalty. Transgression, then, on the part of Adam was entirely excuseless. Created with no evil nature in him, with a will in perfect equipoise, placed in the fairest environment, given dominion over all the lower creation, allowed full liberty with only a single restriction upon him, plainly warned of what would follow an act of insubordination to God, there was every possible inducement for Adam to preserve his innocence; and, should he fail and fall, then by every principle of righteousness his blood must lie upon his own head, and his guilt be imputed to all in whose behalf he acted.

Had God disclosed to Adam His purpose that sin would enter this world, and that He had decreed Adam should eat of the forbidden fruit, it is obvious that Adam could not have been held responsible for the eating of it. But in that God withheld the knowledge of His counsels from Adam, his accountability was not interfered with.

Again; had God created Adam was a bias toward evil, then human responsibility had been impaired and man’s probation merely one in name. But inasmuch as Adam was included among that which God, at the end of the sixth day, pronounced “Very good,” and, inasmuch as man was made “upright” (Eccl. 7:29), then every mouth must be “stopped” and “the whole world” must acknowledge itself “guilty before God” (Rom. 3:19).

Once more, it needs to be carefully borne in mind that God did not decree that Adam should sin and then inject into Adam an inclination to evil in order that His decree might be carried out. No; “God cannot be tempted, neither tempteth He any man” (Jas. 1:13). Instead, when the Serpent came to tempt Eve God caused her to remember His command forbidding to eat of the tree of knowledge of good and evil and of the penalty attached to disobedience! Thus, though God had decreed the Fall, in no sense was He the Author of Adam’s sin, and at no point was Adam’s responsibility impaired. Thus may we admire and adore the “manifold wisdom of God” in devising a way whereby His eternal decree should be accomplished, and yet the responsibility of His creatures be preserved intact.[1]

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[1] Arthur W. Pink, The Sovereignty of God (Swengel, PA: Bible Truth Depot, 1949), 259–263.