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Saturday, March 12, 2022

The Lord’s Invitation to You – Purity 677

 

The Lord’s Invitation to You – Purity 677

Purity 677 03/12/2022  Purity 677 Podcast

Good morning,

Today’s photo of what looks like the fading light of sunset over Indian River comes to us from a friend who recently visited Riverview Park in Sebastian Florida.   While this particular friend lived in upstate NY, he heard the call to go south upon his retirement causing him to purchase a home in Liberty Kentucky. But about a year later he heard the call to “keep going” and sold his place down in the holler and exchanged it for a home on wheels as he purchased a trailer that would give him a place to rest his head as his wanderlust kept him in motion with his recent travels sending him to the Sunshine state. 

Well, it’s Saturday and while today’s forecasted snow will cause me to rest in the cozy confines of my countryside home in Easton NY, my thoughts are drawn to the scriptures that are all about seeking the Lord and answering the call of God on our lives this morning. 

God gives us the invitation to a new and everlasting life through Jesus Christ He also gives us various invitations on our walk of faith after we come to Christ. The question is will we accept God’s invitations or not?

I have invitations on my mind this morning because I just received the information to share for anyone who is interested in taking a Freedom in Christ course through Freedom in Christ Ministries that begin in a few weeks. Spring Registration is now open and I am providing all the information about it on the blog today for anyone interested:   

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If you are interested in taking an online course with Freedom in Christ Ministries below you will find the course options for our Spring Session. The classes will meet for 1.5-2 hours once a week for 12 weeks starting the first full week of April. Our prayer is that you will be able to set aside time for one of these wonderful courses. They truly are life changing!

 

Spring registration is now open! We are offering these times.

1.     Women’s Group, Starting Wednesday, April 6 at 10:00 AM EDT.

2.     Women’s Group, Starting Friday, April 8 at 10:30 AM EDT.

3.     Men’s Group, Starting Tuesday, April 5 at 7:00 PM EDT.

4.     Men's Group, Starting Thursday, April 7 at 6:30 PM EDT.

5.     CO-ED SPANISH SPEAKING Group, Starting Tuesday, April 5 at 7:00 PM EDT.

6.     CO-ED Group, Starting Thursday, April 7 at 7:00 PM EDT.

 

If you are interested in taking the Freedom in Christ Course, please click the Sign-up Form link below to register for your desired course time.

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We encourage you to order your books now through the FICM online Bookstore at Freedominchrist.com. You will need the Freedom in Christ Course Participant’s Guide and The Steps to Freedom in Christ booklet. 

 

For the SPANISH participant's book click here. For the SPANISH Steps to Freedom click here or search SPG004-1 in the bookstore search bar.

                       

All materials and shipping should cost you no more than $25.

 

Once registration has closed, you will receive an introduction email confirming your course time and giving you additional information about your instructor and how the course works.

  

Sign up and order your books today! Class registration will close on Sunday, March 27

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This invitation to take a Freedom in Christ course could be the call of the Lord on your life to grow in your faith and freedom.

After I said a prayer to make Jesus my Lord and Savior in 2010, I have been answering the Lord’s call on my life in a progressive fashion ever since. The way I was drawn to read the Bible after getting saved and the way I felt the need to search for a local church where I could worship God in Spirit and in truth were just the first steps to what has been a continuous occupation of seeking to know the Lord more and to do His will for my life.   

As I have said before, if I were only able to give one bit of advice it would be to “always seek the Lord”.  It is through seeking the Lord that we can solve “the mystery”.  

We can attempt to solve the mystery of our lives in a variety of ways.  

Some people seek to “solve the mystery” of this game called life by accumulating wealth and possessions. Others try to “solve it” through their accomplishments. Others feel that the mystery is solved through relationships. If they could just find the “one”, build a family, and have friends, they feel that would solve everything. 

The American Dream is a combination of all of the above and, in truth, when you achieve all of those things life can be pretty good.  When we get all of those things we may think the “mystery of a happy life” has been solved.  

However, the reality of death causes us to realize that there is a bigger mystery to consider: the mystery of life and death, and the purpose of life.

 A created thing’s purpose is determined by it’s creator and our failure to consider our Creator’s purpose for us is to fail to understand why we are here and what we are created for.  

In looking at the New Testament, when the people who would become the disciples of Jesus heard of the possibility of the Messiah in their midst, they sought the truth.

The search for the Messiah was actually a search for meaning and fulfillment as the disciples knew that the Messiah would be the fulfillment of the Old Testament prophecies and that He would tell us God’s plan for humanity.  So when they finally saw the One John the Baptist pointed to, they were curious and when they addressed Jesus,

John 1:39 (NKJV)
39  He said to them, "Come and see." They came and saw where He was staying, and remained with Him that day …

The Lord gave them an invitation and they took it and they remained with Him not only that day but for all the days He remained on the earth.   They knew that to understand who Jesus was, and their purpose according to Him, they had to accept His invitation and follow Him.  

Similarly, the Lord invites us to know Him through His word and to follow Him by seeking to live by His wisdom and to represent Him on the earth. Like the disciples before me, I have discovered that when we decide to follow Jesus we should make the decision to stay with Him for the rest of our days.   

The Apostles didn’t have the word of God like we do and were greatly challenged to make sense of everything Jesus taught them.   They saw signs and wonders that proved the Jesus was the real deal and realized that they could take part in His work if they just believed but they also understood that they couldn’t accomplish anything unless Christ called them and allowed them to share in His work.  

Peter knew and demonstrated this when in the middle of the night on the Seas of Galilee he saw Christ walking on the water. 

Matthew 14:28-29 (NKJV)
28  And Peter answered Him and said, "Lord, if it is You, command me to come to You on the water."
29  So He said, "Come." And when Peter had come down out of the boat, he walked on the water to go to Jesus.

This section of scripture shows us that when we accept Jesus’ invitation to follow Him we can experience amazing things and that when we keep our eyes on Him we can have peace.  

In John 6:44-45 (NKJV) Christ said that:
44  No one can come to Me unless the Father who sent Me draws him; and I will raise him up at the last day.
45  It is written in the prophets, 'And they shall all be taught by God.' Therefore everyone who has heard and learned from the Father comes to Me.

The invitation to be “taught by God” and to have life everlasting has been given to all of us through the revelation of Jesus Christ.   When we accept it, we are saved and we are invited to live in the mystery of faith, to seek to know God more and to know and fulfill our purpose in Him.   

This world would convince us to just to take care of our immediate needs of a home, a career, and having loving relationships  but the Lord invites us to know our purpose for being: which is to know Him and  to have life with Him always.

The world beckons us to just take care of ourselves and to just be concerned with being happy in the here and now and to not worry about God, claiming we can’t know Him. 

But the writer of Hebrews warns us:

Hebrews 3:12-19 (NLT2)
12  Be careful then, dear brothers and sisters. Make sure that your own hearts are not evil and unbelieving, turning you away from the living God.
13  You must warn each other every day, while it is still “today,” so that none of you will be deceived by sin and hardened against God.
14  For if we are faithful to the end, trusting God just as firmly as when we first believed, we will share in all that belongs to Christ.
15  Remember what it says: “Today when you hear his voice, don’t harden your hearts as Israel did when they rebelled.”
16  And who was it who rebelled against God, even though they heard his voice? Wasn’t it the people Moses led out of Egypt?
17  And who made God angry for forty years? Wasn’t it the people who sinned, whose corpses lay in the wilderness?
18  And to whom was God speaking when he took an oath that they would never enter his rest? Wasn’t it the people who disobeyed him?
19  So we see that because of their unbelief they were not able to enter his rest.

If we are only concerned with being the “king of our castle” and turn our attention to just the pleasures of this life we are being deceived and are turning away from God.  

This passage from the word of God tells us that we are to be faithful to the end and that indicates they we are to persist in accepting the Lord’s invitations to a lifestyle of obediently following Him.  

 

If we want to enter His rest, we have to follow Jesus until we get there.  So keep walking and talking with God. His word is true and His way is sure and when we accept His invitation to life everlasting, and keep our eyes on Him, we will know that He is walking with us and that we will never stumble or fall without Him being there to pick us up and to lead us in the way we should go.   

 

Today’s Bible verse come to us from “The NLT Bible Promise Book for Men”.

This morning’s meditation verse is :

James 5:8 (NLT2)
8  You, too, must be patient. Take courage, for the coming of the Lord is near.

Today’s Bible verse reminds us of the certainty of the Lord’s coming and of our need to be patient.  

The Lord is coming. It is true and everyday we live; we are one day closer to being with the Lord, one way or another.  Whether we will be called into eternity through our physical deaths or if we will be caught up with the other saints to the clouds to meet Jesus in the air, everyday we live is another day closer to our date with our eternal destiny and with seeing God face to face.   

With the looks of things in the world, many are concerned that we are living in the last days and that Jesus could come back at any minute.  And He could, so we should be ready for His coming by making the decision to continually share the hope of the gospel of Jesus Christ and to represent God’s kingdom on the earth by living according to His wisdom and love.

And that my brother and sister is going to require patience.  The world hated Jesus and He promised that it would hate us too.  So we must practice forgiveness and love towards those who would abuse us and to allow the fruit of the Spirit to grow in our lives through our commitment to walk in the Spirit.   

All throughout the history of Christendom, there has been people claiming that the end was nigh, and this should show us that we could possibly be wrong about how near the Lord’s coming is.  But the one thing that was required of those saints of the past, that is also true of us is that while they feared and possibly expected the Lord’s coming they still had to patiently endure through all turmoil of their respective “end times” and be true to the cause of Christ.  And so should we.

We are called to make Jesus known and to let His love work through us no matter what circumstances surround us or no matter how close we may seem to be to “the end”.  

So don’t worry about tomorrow. The Lord knows what we need and when He is coming. We are to trust in Him, live like Him, and patiently do what He has for us until we see Him face to face.  

 

As always, I invite all to go to mt4christ.org where I always share insights from prominent Christian theologians and counselors to assist my brothers and sisters in Christ with their walk. 

Today we continue sharing from June Hunt’s Envy & Jealousy: Taming the Terrible Twins.

As always, I share this information for educational purposes and encourage all to purchase June Hunt’s  books for your own private study and to support his work.  This resource is available on many websites for less than $5.00.

IV.  STEPS TO SOLUTION

A.  Key Verse to Memorize

“I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances.”

(Philippians 4:11)

B.  Key Passage to Read and Reread

Galatians 5:13–26

“You, my brothers, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the sinful nature; rather, serve one another in love. The entire law is summed up in a single command: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ If you keep on biting and devouring each other, watch out or you will be destroyed by each other. So I say, live by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the sinful nature. For the sinful nature desires what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to the sinful nature. They are in conflict with each other, so that you do not do what you want. But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under law. The acts of the sinful nature are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery; idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions and envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like. I warn you, as I did before, that those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God. But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the sinful nature with its passions and desires. Since we live by the Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit. Let us not become conceited, provoking and envying each other.”

(Galatians 5:13–26)

C.  Responding to Jealousy—Speaking the Truth in Love

     Confront in love—speak in love.

     Attempt to determine the source of the jealousy—selfish or godly jealousy.

     Decide whether the jealousy is justified or a product of the imagination.

     Encourage disclosure of the pain without placing blame.

     Ask for forgiveness for any possible offenses—do not be defensive.

     Affirm jealous people by declaring their value—give praise and encouragement.

     Work on a plan together.

     Withdraw from one who is demonstrating open hatred or destructive manipulation.

“Speaking the truth in love, we will in all things grow up into him who is the Head, that is, Christ.”

(Ephesians 4:15)

D.  Replacing Destructive Emotions

     Face your feelings and use them as indicators to change.

“If you harbor bitter envy and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not boast about it or deny the truth.” (James 3:14)

     Recognize the source of these emotions.

“Such ‘wisdom’ does not come down from heaven but is earthly, unspiritual, of the devil. For where you have envy and selfish ambition, there you find disorder and every evil practice.” (James 3:15–16)

   Envy is an outgrowth of desire and a result of sinful patterns.

“Then he said to them, ‘Watch out! Be on your guard against all kinds of greed; a man’s life does not consist in the abundance of his possessions.’ ” (Luke 12:15)

   Jealousy is an outgrowth of love and a natural emotion—but is it godly or selfish?

“I am jealous for you with a godly jealousy. I promised you to one husband, to Christ, so that I might present you as a pure virgin to him.” (2 Corinthians 11:2)

     Agape love says that you can transcend your natural jealousy and envy.

“You, my brothers, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the sinful nature; rather, serve one another in love. The entire law is summed up in a single command: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ ” (Galatians 5:13–14)

   Agape is a commitment to seek the highest good of another.

“My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you.” (John 15:12)

   Agape keeps us from expecting too much from another.

“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.” (1 Corinthians 13:4–5)

   Agape keeps us from expecting everything in this life.

“We fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen. For what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.” (2 Corinthians 4:18)

   Agape keeps us from idolizing another person.

“Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength.” (Deuteronomy 6:5)

   Agape diminishes the pain of these emotions.

“A heart at peace gives life to the body, but envy rots the bones.” (Proverbs 14:30)

   Agape is the power to admit you cannot meet all the needs of another person or even all your own needs.

“My God will meet all your needs according to his glorious riches in Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 4:19)

     Pray, pray, pray.

   With contentment

“Thank you, Lord, that I can be content in every circumstance.”

“I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances.” (Philippians 4:11)

   Without fear

“Thank you, Lord, that I do not have to be afraid.”

“The Lord is my light and my salvation—whom shall I fear? The Lord is the stronghold of my life—of whom shall I be afraid?” (Psalm 27:1)

   With love

“Thank you, Lord, for Your unconditional love. May I love others the way You love them … with Your love.”

”I tell you: Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.” (Matthew 5:44)

   Without interruption

“Thank you, Lord, for promising to meet my needs and the needs of others. I pray that they will look to You to meet the unmet needs in their lives.”

“Pray continually.” (1 Thessalonians 5:17)

   With a guarded tongue

“Guard what I say, Lord, so that I build up, not tear down others.”

“Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.” (Ephesians 4:29)

“Set a guard over my mouth, O Lord; keep watch over the door of my lips.” (Psalm 141:3)

     Change your focus to pleasing Christ rather than on pleasing people and their desires.

   Self-worth

“Thank you, Lord, that my significance comes from You.”

“For in Christ all the fullness of the Deity lives in bodily form, and you have been given fullness in Christ, who is the head over every power and authority.” (Colossians 2:9–10)

   Strength

“Thank you, Lord, that You will enable me to do what You call me to do.”

“The one who calls you is faithful and he will do it.” (1 Thessalonians 5:24)

 

Praying for the one toward whom you feel jealousy or envy is the key that unlocks the prison door. When I have found myself locked in the jail of jealousy, my only hope for freedom has been prayer—praying for the one who is the focus of my jealousy. When I “prayed for my enemy,”

Christ set the prisoner free—and that prisoner was me!

—June Hunt[1]

 

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[1] June Hunt, Biblical Counseling Keys on Envy & Jealousy: Taming the Terrible Twins (Dallas, TX: Hope For The Heart, 2008), 8–11.


Friday, March 11, 2022

Contingency Plans for Disaster – His Truth & His Love – Purity 676


Contingency Plans for Disaster – His Truth & His Love  – Purity 676

Purity 676 03/11/2022  - Purity 676 Podcast

Good morning,

Today’s photo of a view from the Royal Sonesta San Juan Beach Hotel comes to us from a friend who decided to take a break from the winter in upstate NY by visiting sunny Puerto Rico!  I especially like the wispy cloud formation they captured in this photo that could be said to resemble an angel or a dove to represent one of God’s messengers or the Holy Spirit Himself.  Looking at this scene, I’m pretty sure the message from God would be: You are blessed!  

Well, it’s Friday, and if you know you are blessed you should thank God for it because many of our friends and neighbors do not have this perspective and continually walk in the affliction of the world system and the enemy that fills them with anger, fear, depression, and anxiety.  

When we don’t recognize that there is a God, over and above all creation that is moving all things to fulfill His purposes, and just look at the world as a dangerous place that appears to be meaningless and is just falling apart, we are shaken by every passing circumstance and fail to see any reason for hope.    

Yesterday, circumstantially,  I had one of those “terrible, horrible, no good, very bad” days that just invites our anger, frustrations, and complaints but luckily I remembered my training in spiritual warfare and managed to take every thought captive and didn’t let the negative circumstances that I faced drag me too far down in the dumps before I corrected my course.  

Thursdays, the days I have done recovery ministry in the past and discipleship ministry currently, seemed to be the days that the enemy chooses to do some of his worst, or in his eyes best work, to distract people from their decision to trust in the Lord for their recovery or with their decision to follow Him.  

Through the years, Thursdays have been the days where people in my immediate circle have suffered illness, accidents, broken relationships, relapses, and, one time, even a murder in the family.  It is a world broken by sin after all, so I am not surprised when bad things happen in life but really wonder if there is something sinister happening when it impedes someone’s walk with the Lord.   

Thankfully, my day yesterday was mild compared to the things I have seen in the past but the preponderance of little annoyances, pressures, frustrations, and colossal blunders reminded me of the need to continue to put everything in context of who I am in Christ, to “give it to God”, and to keep going in the strength and the peace of the Lord.  

Yesterday I ran into problems I couldn’t fix, I but really wanted to!. I managed to stain my jacket with wet paint, and just when I was ready to call it a day I managed to lock my keys in my work truck and was stranded as the contingency plans at work failed.  

Thankfully, I have a spare set of keys and a son with a license and even though it was close, I managed to get home in time to facilitate the Freedom in Christ Men’s group that I lead on Thursday nights.  I also was blessed by my wife who decided to come down to comfort her husband after his relatively bad day.  

Life will invariably give us problems and the Lord has blessed us with minds to think of contingency plans to put in place when disaster strikes and, if we are prepared, we can handle them with a lot more grace than if we fail to learn from the calamities that have befallen us in the past.   

So the “spare key” and “son who can drive” contingency worked out pretty good.  I was inconvenienced but not defeated.   The “Christian Wife” contingency also really helped me to further remind me that I am not alone and that I am deeply loved and supported. 

But before these measures kicked in after the significant disaster of being stranded at work,  The Lord was with me to deal with those minor difficulties that attempted to steal my peace.  

As a tech, my job is to fix things and when I run into situations where I have to admit that I have to pass my jobs onto specialists that have the training and tools that are above my abilities,  I can get frustrated because a part of me knows “I can fix it!” I can do this!” Come, man!”   

But when I hear “that guy” I don’t hear peace and I don’t hear reason either. When “that guy” speaks, I see a man who wants to be valued for his performance and that is when I know I am in the dangerous territory of pride.  The “I can do it myself.” spirit is one of pride and can easily go into the realm of rebellion and when I see myself start to go that way. I go remind myself that I am not responsible to “fix” everything and my value doesn’t lie in the things I can do.  

At work, I am to fix what I can and pass off what I can’t to the specialists.  In my walk of faith,  I am to do my part and leave the rest up to God.  In short like my friend who decided to leave the winter behind for the sunny atmosphere of Puerto Rico,  I am to give myself a break.   

So whatever you may be facing in your life, remind yourself that your worth is determined by God, not by your performance.  He has determined that you were valuable enough to send His Son, Jesus Christ, to die for you so you could live with Him forever. 

If bad things come your way, remind yourself that in Christ you are loved and accepted, significant and secure, and that nothing can change that.   

So take a break, thank God it’s Friday, and keep walking and talking with God through the workday today and into the weekend beyond.   No matter what happens God is with you and if you follow His wisdom and ways He will lead you to know peace even when it seems that only bad things are happening, and the world is falling apart.  

The truth is that lie – that only bad things are happening, and the world is falling apart -  isn’t true.  God has it all under control and when we walk with Him we can see that there are many good things happening all around us and He can help us to navigate the ups and downs of life with the assurance of His love and the peace and joy that comes to being in a covenant relationship with Him. 

 

Today’s Bible verse come to us from “The NLT Bible Promise Book for Men”.

This morning’s meditation verse is :

James 5:7 (NLT2)
7  Dear brothers and sisters, be patient as you wait for the Lord’s return. Consider the farmers who patiently wait for the rains in the fall and in the spring. They eagerly look for the valuable harvest to ripen.

Today’s verse speaks of the need to be patient and assures us of the Lord’s return.   

Yup Jesus is coming back.  The book of Revelation tells us that.  And it tells us of a new heaven and a new earth that the Lord will create for His people. 

So we can agree to disagree with the History Channel’s show “The Universe” that explains how eventually the universe will just go dark as all the stars burn out and all life is extinguished.  That show fails to recognize the Creator, God, may have a different plan for His creation, a plan that was revealed through His Son, Jesus Christ.  

Jesus Christ coming to earth was a game changer. His life, death, and resurrection showed us that He was God in the flesh. He confirmed the truth of The Old Testament and the Messianic prophecies.  His life and the beginning of the church were documented in the New Testament and just when you may have thought that it was just a collection of historical accounts and letters on Christian doctrine and living, the book of Revelation shows us that the Lord had something to tell us about the future as well.  

The good news of Revelation is that those who stand with God through their faith in Jesus Christ will stand forever.   

But what are we supposed to do until then?  

We live and share the eternal life that the Lord gave us. We also share the hope that we have in Christ’s eventual return.  

When will it come? 

We don’t know and it doesn’t really matter.  In Christ we have the assurance of our eternal life in His kingdom.  Regardless of when we are called into eternity or when Jesus comes for us, we can experience the peace and joy and patience that comes when we walk in the Spirit and let the fruit of the Spirit grow in our lives.   

So walk with God and share His love if you do that patience will definitely grow in your life. 

Just like a farmer has to trust that the seeds he plants will grow, we have to trust that the Lord has sowed His life in us and that we can see the fruit of the Spirit grow as we follow Him and that our eternal lives will one day grow out of our physical deaths or will come in a blink of an eye if Christ should come for us before we die.   

The good news is that God wins, and He is sharing His victory with us today and forever more. So be patient and wait on the Lord.

 

As always, I invite all to go to mt4christ.org where I always share insights from prominent Christian theologians and counselors to assist my brothers and sisters in Christ with their walk. 

Today we continue sharing from June Hunt’s Envy & Jealousy: Taming the Terrible Twins.

As always, I share this information for educational purposes and encourage all to purchase June Hunt’s  books for your own private study and to support his work.  This resource is available on many websites for less than $5.00.

III.  CAUSEs

A.  Surface Causes

     Envy

   desire for selfish gain

   comparison

   emphasis on personal rights

   unrealistic expectations

     Jealousy

   lack of trust

   low self-image

   guilt

   fear of loss

“A heart at peace gives life to the body, but envy rots the bones.”

(Proverbs 14:30)

B.  Situational Setups

     Envy           

   affluence (money)

   achievement (honors, awards)

   appearance (looks, clothes, etc.)

   abilities (talents)

   advancement (promotions)

   activities (trips, social invitations)

     Jealousy

   sibling rivalry

   friendships

   marriage relationships

   adult parent/child relationships

   competitive work environment

   legalistic church environment

“I saw that all labor and all achievement spring from man’s envy of his neighbor.”

(Ecclesiastes 4:4)

C.  Root Cause

Wrong Belief:

For Envy:

“I have a right to have what others have because I need to feel more significant.”

For Jealousy:

“I have a right to keep whatever I have to fulfill my need for significance.”

Right Belief:

I will trust God and choose to be content regardless of what I have or do not have. He will fulfill my need for significance through His life lived within me.

“I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do everything through him who gives me strength.” (Philippians 4:11–13)[1]

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These teachings are also available on the MT4Christ247 You Tube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCTxjSNstREpuGWuL0bF3U7w/featured

Email me at mt4christ247@gmail.com to receive the class materials, share your progress, and to be encouraged.

My wife, TammyLyn, also offers Christian encouragement via her Facebook Group: Ask, Seek, Knock (https://www.facebook.com/groups/529047851449098 ) and her podcast Ask, Seek, and Knock on Podbean (https://feed.podbean.com/tammalyn78/feed.xml)

Encouragement for the Path of Christian Discipleship



[1] June Hunt, Biblical Counseling Keys on Envy & Jealousy: Taming the Terrible Twins (Dallas, TX: Hope For The Heart, 2008), 6–7.