Showing posts with label Serenity Prayer. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Serenity Prayer. Show all posts

Tuesday, April 2, 2024

Rejecting the Lie That: “I Missed It - Purity 1315

Rejecting the Lie That: “I Missed It - Purity 1315

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Good morning,

Today’s photo of lilacs and other flowers in the foreground as the sunsets in the distance over a mountain range that I suspect to be the Catskill Mountains comes to us from an unknown FB friend who shared this scene on social media on or around May 7, 2021. If this photo is yours and you’d like to be recognized for it, give me a heads up and I will update the blog to give you the photo credit after the fact. 

Well, It’s Tuesday and I am sharing today’s photo to continue my campaign of “cleaning out my closet” of unused photos “borrowed” from social media and to highlight the fact that it is indeed actually springtime. My personal electronic assistant who will remain nameless confirmed to me that the first day of spring in 2024 was March 19th – two weeks ago – and even though we had some snow that may have caused us to doubt what season we are in – the meteorological circumstances, and our feelings, don’t change the fact that it is spring. That’s the truth.

As an advocate for a lifestyle of Christian discipleship that is grounded in experiencing our freedom in Christ through repentance and affirming the truth of who we are in Christ,  I often encourage Christians to honestly look at the beliefs they are holding on that cause them to stay stuck in sin or negative mind states such as anger, anxiety, or depression.  When you ask people who are earnestly seeking freedom or a breakthrough to review their family and personal history, and if you listen carefully to what they are saying, they will reveal things they believe about themselves, God, or in life in general – that may be supported by the circumstances of their life experience – that contradict what the word of God says.  If you give people a space in which they can safely tell their story, they will tell you the lies they believe.   

One of the lies that I have heard from a few different people over the years has to do with regrets from the past where they believe that they “missed” their calling or purpose in life, or their opportunity to be used by God, or their chance at happiness.  

In recovery circles, these narratives are described as the “Only If’s” – or :If Only’s.”    

As in “If I had only asked _________ to marry me instead of __________”

OR IF Only I had never _____________ or IF Only, I had __________ done x,y,z.

OF If Only they had _____

Regrets cause us to second guess our life’s path and contribute to the false belief that we “Missed IT” – our chance at happiness or purpose or fulfilment.  And while we can look at our lives and think of several points where things could have been different, it is a lie to believe that we “missed it” when it comes to “God’s plan for our lives” or for our personal happiness.

The Freedom in Christ course defines happiness as “wanting what you have” – as being content – and no missed opportunities in the past can stop us from being content with what we have today – but dwelling on the thoughts of regrets from the past t certainly can!

While we can’t fix the past, through prayer and repentance, we can resolve and move beyond the conflicts of the past that affect our present and get in the way of looking toward the future with hope.

The serenity prayer touches on how we “do this” when we pray:  

“…to accept the things I cannot change,
 the courage to change the things I can,
 and the wisdom to know the difference.
 Living one day at a time
 enjoying one moment at a time;
 accepting hardship as a pathway to peace;
 taking, as Jesus did,
 this sinful world as it is,
 not as I would have it;
 trusting that You will make all things right
 if I surrender to Your will
 so that I may be reasonably happy in this life
 and supremely happy with You forever in the next.

So reject the lie that you “missed it” and instead accept the things that happened in the past. Forgive those who have hurt you and seek the forgiveness of those you have hurt (when doing so will not harm them or others) to move past any bitterness or guilt you have been holding on to.  Forgive yourself – meaning you accept God’s forgiveness and let it stick – there is no condemnation – and move forward in the peace that the Lord wants you to live in.  

As for the missed opportunities and broken relationships, accept that they are in the past and gone, and endeavor to start living today to be right with God, to be the person He created you to be, and to step out in faith and hope to see what God wants to do with the rest of your life.  All that stuff in the past has prepared you for today, and we can either learn from it and move on wiser from it, or we can dwell on things we can not change and be consumed by feelings of shame, guilt, and regret and stay stuck in our negative feelings and listlessness. God has forgiven us and call us to a new life, but we have to accept it and move forward with Him to experience the freedom and abundant life He has given us.  If we know Jesus, we didn’t “miss it” but we have to follow Him into the life He wants us to live to be free. 

So, seek the Lord and the truth of who you are in Christ. Live from the identity that God gives you when you put your faith in Jesus and learn to walk in His ways.  Walking in the Spirit leads to peace, love, joy, and other good things so step out in faith and follow the Lord into the life He has for you and take the opportunities that come your way to give thanks to God and to share the good news of the life and peace that only comes through Jesus.


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Today’s Bible verse come to us from “The Quick Scripture Reference for Counseling” By John G. Kruis.

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This morning’s meditation verse comes from the section on Contentment, Coveting & and Priorities.

2 Corinthians 4:18 (NLT2)
18  So we don’t look at the troubles we can see now; rather, we fix our gaze on things that cannot be seen. For the things we see now will soon be gone, but the things we cannot see will last forever.

Today’s verse falls under the twenty-fifth point of our counseling reference guide resource’s section on Contentment, Coveting, and Priorities.

25. What is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.

Today’s verse encourages us to look beyond current troubles and to focus on the unseen things that can give us hope and inspire us to endure and persevere through trials. Christians are assured that God is moving all things together for our good and regardless of what we may suffer in the here and now we have the promise of eternal life to keep us buoyed by hope. We know God will never leave us and forsake us – even if we die – and when we can hold on to that unseen truth – we can handle anything this world has to dish out.   Christ rose from the dead and ascended to heaven, literally – that’s a fact – and that fact and the testimony of scripture tells us of the spiritual realm the exists beyond this mortal coil and the hope that God’s kingdom will come and restore this world broken by sin when Jesus returns.   These are all unseen, but they are promised and true and they can cause us to live lives free from fear and full of joy.


As always, I invite all to go to where I always share insights from prominent Christian theologians and counselors to assist my brothers and sisters in Christ with their walk.

Today we continue sharing from “According to Your Word: Morning and Evening Through the New Testament” By Stephen F. Olford – A Collection of Devotional Journals: 1940-1941.

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“If anyone thirsts, let him come to Me and drink.”
– John 7:37

There are three steps in this verse. Each one is as important as the other, and all lead to true satisfaction in Christ.

Rapacity – a greedy desire or craving for the Living Water. “If anyone thirsts.” There must be this earnest desire if the soul is to be satisfied, for the Word says, “Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they shall be filled” (Matt 5:6).

Request – “Let him come to Me.” This is request, for it includes the two parties: he who thirsts coming to the One who satisfies. That coming is the request of the soul.

Reception – “Drink.” Here is the personal deliberate reception of the gift of satisfying water. “To drink” implies the receiving into oneself.

Satisfy my soul now, O Lord,
until I overflow with Your blessing.[1]

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Encouragement for the Path of Christian Discipleship

Wednesday, March 31, 2021

Purity 380: Encouragement for the Path of Christian Discipleship

 Purity 380 03/31/2021 Purity 380 Podcast

Good morning.

Today’s photo was captured by yours truly at the intersection of Hays Road and State Route 9J in Rensselaer NY as I was returning from dinner at a friend’s house last night.  This sunset caught my eye because of the peculiar cloud formation that seemed to be directly pointing down at the at the setting sun. 

In our discussions over dinner with my friend, we discussed recent changes and losses in our lives, our friends’ lives, and the state of our Christian walks.  As confusing and troubling some of the changes that we have seen in our immediate circles over the last few weeks and months have been, we both expressed our hearts desire to continue following the Lord and strengthening our commitment to not stray away from our relationships with God but to instead to draw closer to Him by seeking Him in prayer, in study, in the ways we used our spare time, and in the ways we live our lives.    

It’s Holy Week, and to me any signs and wonders in the sky make me wonder.  Although it just seemed like a straight line of clouds in the sky, when I looked at it I got a cross like impression, or maybe a crucifixion nail, and I took it as an encouragement from the Lord to keep walking and talking with Him and to trust that He would be present with me no matter what changes may be in store in the months ahead. 

Regardless of what you see in this photo, I was reminded that God is above, and that this week is special and that He is with us.  

So I encourage you to not get too caught up with the things happening in and around your lives here on earth without considering the Lord’s place in it all. God is with us and wants us to turn to Him continually to seek His strength, love, and wisdom as we go through life. And I believe that occasionally, He gives us signs because He wants us to know that He is watching over us.  

This morning’s meditation verses are:

Ephesians 2:8-9 (NKJV)
8 For by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God,
9 not of works, lest anyone should boast.

Today’s verses remind us of the truth that we gleaned from Romans 3:28 yesterday which told us that a person is not justified by works.  

I believe that this truth is being presented purposefully by the Holy Spirit, through the “random” selection of the index card with these verses on it, to further express the fact that our salvation is not based on our efforts or works but is indeed a gift of God and is the product of God’s grace to activate our faith in Jesus as Lord and Savior.  

When we go from unsaved to saved, we receive the truth of the gospel that we never understood or accepted before.  I went from someone who was a practicing Buddhist who basically denied the idea of a personal God and privately pitied and mocked anyone who had faith or believed in the truths of Christianity.   

But on that fateful day in March of 2010, in a parking lot on Aviation Road in Albany New York, the Lord anointed a Christian radio message with His grace and through the power of the Holy Spirit, I heard the truth as if for the first time of Christ’s work on the cross and God’s great love for me.   It was by God’s grace that I realized that truth and asked Jesus to be my Lord and Savior.   

Before that moment, I was spiritually dead and lost. After I said “Yes” to Jesus, I was alive and the new life began to manifest in a desire to know God’s word, to live according to it, and to share this good news with anyone who would listen.     

We don’t have to earn it. We just have to seek God and give Him an opportunity to touch our hearts and to open our eyes.  

I begrudgingly listened to that Christian radio message, with the full intention to mock it, but when I did I unwittingly opened a door for God to come into my life.  

So if you think you must earn your place in God’s kingdom or have to be a good person before God will accept you, I beg you have an open heart and mind to the possibility that the gospel of Jesus Christ is true.  

When you invite God to reveal Himself to you, when you seek Him in the smallest way, you can receive His grace, His unmerited favor, to know the truth and to be given a new and eternal life.    

And like the verse says, you won’t be able to boast about having done anything to receive your new life, but you will be filled with the peace, joy, and love of God that will compel you to tell others all about it and invite them to experience it too. 

I invite all to where I always share insights from prominent Christian counselors to assist my brothers and sisters in Christ with their walk. 


Today we will share from Dr. June Hunt’s Biblical Counseling Keys on “Alcohol & Drug Abuse: Breaking Free & Staying Free.

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C. How to Discover Deliverance from Dependency

Bobby Richardson had agreed to officiate Mickey Mantle's funeral, and he was summoned to Dallas, Texas, three days before the death of baseball's greatest athlete. Bobby visited Mickey in the hospital as he lay suffering with liver cancer. He knew this could be his very last opportunity to make an appeal that would direct the eternal destiny of "the Mick," so there was no time for small talk or hesitation.

"Mickey," Bobby implored, "I love you, and I want you to spend eternity in heaven with me." Nothing more needed to be said, for Bobby had already clearly communicated before to Mickey that Jesus died on the cross for his sins and rose again, opening the door for full forgiveness and the free gift of eternal life. So how would his longtime friend respond in these final moments? Would he accept or reject the amazing grace being extended to him?

Mickey smiled, and serenely said, "Bobby, I've been wanting to tell you that I have trusted Jesus Christ as my Savior."

On August 13, 1995, baseball legend Mickey Mantle died a healed man. He was healed physically, delivered from dependency and no longer suffering the pain and anguish of a disease-ravaged body. And he has been healed spiritually — every single sin Mickey Mantle ever committed has been forgiven by Christ ... never ... ever ... to be brought up again. ...

"In him we have ... the forgiveness of sins. ..."
(Ephesians 1:7)

Just as a chemical dependency doesn't develop overnight, neither does deliverance from dependency. A sequence of events leads people into bondage and another sequence leads people into freedom.

At the moment of your salvation, you were delivered from the penalty of sin (eternal death), and you can be delivered from the power of sin (destructive addictions). But you must realize that freedom from the power of dependency is a process that requires focused, active participation on your part. You must choose to believe and practice the truth about yourself and God. In order to do that, you will need to ...

  • Admit you are powerless over your dependency.

"I am unable to manage my life — I cannot control my life."

·    Accept your dependent condition and your vulnerability to chemical addiction.

·    Acknowledge your inability to manage your life and to overcome your drug dependency.

·    Articulate to God your total inadequacy and your deepest need of His power in your life.

"Indeed, we felt we had received the sentence of death. But this happened that we might not rely on ourselves but on God, who raises the dead" (2 Corinthians 1:9).

  • Realize that the God who made you and saved you has the power to restore you.

"I am asking Christ to be my Redeemer, to restore every area of my life."

·    Accept the Lordship of Christ Jesus in your life as your Master, Ruler, and Owner.

    • Acknowledge your need for God to comfort you and to restore you to wholeness.

·    Articulate your gratitude to God for His saving power operating within your mind, will, and emotions. Thank Him for what He plans to do in and through your life.

"Though you have made me see troubles, many and bitter, you will restore my life again; from the depths of the earth you will again bring me up. You will increase my honor and comfort me once more" (Psalm 71:20-21).

  • Yield your will to the will of the Lord.

"I am asking Christ to take control of my life."

·    Accept the fact that your sinful nature died on the cross with Jesus and that sin (your addiction) is to no longer rule your life.

·    Acknowledge the devastation that has resulted from your self-willed living in the past.

·    Articulate your determination to stop your self-willed living and your decision to yield your will to the Lord.

"Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight" (Proverbs 3:5-6).

  • Face reality — face your true self.

"I will look honestly at my life, asking God to uncover my sins and character flaws."

·    Accept the truth that you have deceived yourself about your dependency and your desperate need for help.

·    Acknowledge your previous reluctance to face the truth about your wrong choices and patterns.

·    Articulate to God and to others your willingness to know the truth about yourself and your commitment to evaluate honestly your life, your strengths, and your weaknesses.

"Search me, God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting" (Psalm 139:23-24).

  • Admit your struggle with sin, both to God and to someone else.

"May I see my sin as God sees it and hate my sin as God hates it."

·    Accept the depth and the duration of your struggle with chemical dependency.

·    Acknowledge to a supportive person the power that your dependency has had over you. Confirm your present commitment to freedom.

·    Articulate to both God and a friend your desire to overcome your dependency and to live in the victory Jesus secured for you at Calvary.

"If we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us" (1 John 1:8).

  • Accept God's help to change your patterns of the past.

"I will commit my life into the care of Christ."

·    Accept your limitations and your need for help in changing your unhealthy patterns of dealing with life.

·    Acknowledge your frailty and the feebleness of your willpower and self-effort to effect change.

·    Articulate to God your helplessness and your pledge to cooperate with Him as He changes you from the inside out.

"Humble yourselves, therefore, under God's mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time. Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you" (1 Peter 5:6-7).

  • Confess your defects and daily failings.

"I'm willing to see myself as God sees me."

·    Accept that you are not perfect and that you will fail at times despite your good intentions.

·    Acknowledge your failures immediately and confess them to God and to those you have offended. Then correct your course.

·    Articulate any sins and shortcomings to God on a daily basis, and claim His forgiveness and cleansing.

"Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me. Do not cast me from your presence or take your Holy Spirit from me. Restore to me the joy of your salvation and grant me a willing spirit, to sustain me" (Psalm 51:10-12).

  • Ask forgiveness of those you have offended.

"I will find those whom I've hurt and from my heart ask for their forgiveness."

·    Accept your need to ask forgiveness of anyone you offend, even though you may have been offended yourself.

·    Acknowledge your great need of God's mercy and grace and your resolve to extend mercy and grace to others.

·    Articulate to both God and to those you have offended your grief and regret and your resolve to change where you need to change.

"If you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother or sister has something against you, leave your gift there in front of the altar. First go and be reconciled to them; then come and offer your gift" (Matthew 5:23-24).

  • Make restitution where you have wronged others.

"I will go and make amends where possible with the help of God."

·    Accept your obligation to do whatever is within your power in order to right your wrongs.

·    Acknowledge to God and to those whom you have wronged your desire to make amends in any way possible.

·    Articulate your responsibility to make restitution and your commitment to repay whatever debt you owe, whether repaying money or labor, correcting a lie, showing respect, or extending love.

"If they give back what they took in pledge for a loan, return what they have stolen, follow the decrees that give life, and do no evil — that person will surely live; they will not die. None of the sins that person has committed will be remembered against them. They have done what is just and right; they will surely live" (Ezekiel 33:15-16).

  • Keep a clean slate when you realize you have been wrong.

"Each day I will take responsibility for my irresponsibility."

·    Accept your charge to keep a clean slate before God and every person.

·    Acknowledge each and every failure in order to live as God would have you to live.

·    Articulate each failure to God on a moment-by-moment basis, making no excuses, but recommitting to live a self-controlled, Spirit-empowered life.

"The grace of God has appeared that offers salvation to all people. It teaches us to say 'No' to ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright and godly lives ..." (Titus 2:11-12).

  • Pray to know God's path for your life.

"I want to be led by the Lord and to be put only on His path."

·    — Accept your new dependence on God and your vital need to communicate with Him on a daily basis through Bible study and prayer.

·    — Acknowledge your need to have the prayer support of others to know God's truths and God's ways.

·    — Articulate to God your desire to be what He wants you to be and to do what He wants you to do.

"Show me your ways, Lord, teach me your paths. Guide me in your truth and teach me, for you are God my Savior, and my hope is in you all day long" (Psalm 25:4-5).

  • Reach out to others with your hand and your heart.

"I will care for those who need care and will help with a heart of compassion."

·    — Accept your need of others and their need of you.

·    — Acknowledge your giftedness from God and His mandate to use your God-given gifts to serve others in tangible, practical ways.

·    — Articulate ways that God may be leading you to minister to others and ask for His confirmation and for the guidance of mature Christians who can help you to reach out to others.

"Carry each other's burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ" (Galatians 6:2).

This impactful prayer, crafted during World War II, has become known worldwide because, every day, countless numbers of people around the globe pray this. They are looking to God for the grace, courage, and wisdom to walk through each day totally surrendered to the only One who has overcome the world — and the very One who enables us to be overcomers in this world.

The Serenity Prayer


God, give us grace to accept with serenity

the things that cannot be changed,

Courage to change the things

which should be changed,

and the Wisdom to distinguish

the one from the other.


Living one day at a time,

Enjoying one moment at a time,

Accepting hardship as a pathway to peace,

Taking, as Jesus did,

This sinful world as it is,

Not as I would have it,

Trusting that You will make all things right,

If I surrender to Your will,

So that I may be reasonably happy in this life,

And supremely happy with You forever in the next. Amen.

— Reinhold Niebuhr (1892-1971)

Jesus imparts this comforting promise ...

"In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world."
(John 16:33)

Biblical Counseling Keys - Biblical Counseling Keys – Biblical Counseling Keys: Alcohol & Drug Abuse: Breaking Free & Staying Free.

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